Ram1988 Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 41 minutes ago, KBB said: If anyone needs anything. A chat, a text, a beer at half time then pm me or people on here. I have never met anyone from here, nobody knows who I am, I might possible even sit next or around you at the games and we never know. Many people will have met up before. I like to "hide" behind my user name. Same as the old DET board keithsburgerbill. Some may even remember me from there. I try to be honest and supportive and positive about the fans and the club. Keep your head up, chest out and look people in the eye and say loud and proud "I am a Derby Maybe those of us who want to from the forum could have a get together at one of the pubs to have a toast to our beloved Derby. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angieram Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 Keep your spirits up, @B4ev6is and think of those guys giving it everything on the pitch for our club every week. We'll get behind them and together we'll fight to the end. WE ARE Derby! Ramifications, Kathcairns and CBRammette 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyler Durden Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 3 hours ago, LN747 said: Stay strong Beavis - have you got any rams fans friends you can go and have a face to face chat with over a drink or food - always helps me feel better seeing and chatting to others Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gisby Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 Mark my words @B4ev6is we ain’t going nowhere mate. Keep you’re nerve, we’ll be ok. They say a week is a long time in politics well a week is a long time in the current DCFC debacle too. Look how far we’ve come since last Friday, the tide is turning buddy. The EFL are a spent force, the collusion with Boro’ to deflect any action against themselves and onto us Is their death knell. Just hang in there. History will show …. DCFC the club that brought down the EFL. Take heart mate, we are all with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ram a lamb a ding dong Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 The sense of loss and pain is monumental. Cant quite get my head around it. Very much feel on the edge of bursting in to tears Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BucksRam Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 3 hours ago, Leeds Ram said: B4 I'd suggest taking a break from the internet. It's mentally draining following the news and if it's affecting you this much I'd do something that you enjoy to take your mind off it. At the moment, things don't look great but it's not over just yet. Sound advice. I've made a point today of generally staying off the internet for exactly that reason. I got totally drawn in yesterday and it dictated my emotions all day. It's one of my daughter's 13th today so focused on that. Presents, nice chat and a lovely family birthday meal out. Helped me touch ground again. ariotofmyown, Zag zig, IslandExile and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ram a lamb a ding dong Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 I was glued to Radio Derby today and it was a damn rollercoaster. Feel rinsed 4 hours ago, Gritstone Ram said: Are there any mental health support sites we could pin up for worried fans? Everyday I feel like I’m having a nervous breakdown every time a bit of news comes out or a meeting is held. It just seems to get worse. Gritstone Ram 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B4ev6is Posted January 19, 2022 Author Share Posted January 19, 2022 I am so sorry guys that I worried you all just finding all to much to handle at the moment I back to my supportive self. GenBr, archram, DarkFruitsRam7 and 9 others 7 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rammie16 Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 40 minutes ago, BucksRam said: Sound advice. I've made a point today of generally staying off the internet for exactly that reason. I got totally drawn in yesterday and it dictated my emotions all day. It's one of my daughter's 13th today so focused on that. Presents, nice chat and a lovely family birthday meal out. Helped me touch ground again. Spot on BucksRam. I live next to a school and the parents parking outside my house winds me up every day. I now don't look outside the window at certain times. Truth is what you can't see/know can't hurt you. Don't do on-line updates all the time (Derbyshire Live is the worst for winding everyone up). Maybe choose 2 or 3 times every day to check for updates? I'm a Mental Health nurse btw and happy to offer my support but I'm also finding it stressful myself. B4 - I have some amazing colleagues in Derby who can give you great support along with me - you are not alone ok? We are the family of Derby County; we look after each other. Ray V Rev 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rammie16 Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 1 minute ago, B4ev6is said: I am so sorry guys that I worried you all just finding all to much to handle at the moment I back to my supportive self. Its ok B4. Hang in - we are going to be ok. Rammy03 and Ram1988 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foreveram Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 Stay strong B4, we need a full turnout on Saturday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IslandExile Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 15 minutes ago, B4ev6is said: I am so sorry guys that I worried you all just finding all to much to handle at the moment I back to my supportive self. You're not alone @B4ev6is. We are all stressed out. The sooner it's sorted out the better. I think we may have to wait though - like transfer deadline day - the deal may get done at the last minute. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B4ev6is Posted January 19, 2022 Author Share Posted January 19, 2022 2 minutes ago, Foreveram said: Stay strong B4, we need a full turnout on Saturday. I will do buddy once again sorry that I worried people. I love this club so much with all my heart. Crewton, Amberram, IslandExile and 2 others 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B4ev6is Posted January 19, 2022 Author Share Posted January 19, 2022 2 minutes ago, IslandExile said: You're not alone @B4ev6is. We are all stressed out. The sooner it's sorted out the better. I think we may have to wait though - like transfer deadline day - the deal may get done at the last minute. Check my new rallying cry to the lads and Rooney. 2tups, IslandExile and Amberram 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foreveram Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 6 hours ago, Gritstone Ram said: Are there any mental health support sites we could pin up for worried fans? Everyday I feel like I’m having a nervous breakdown every time a bit of news comes out or a meeting is held. It just seems to get worse. There is one called Happy themovement google it, you will have heard of the owner a Mr Robert E Couhig, you couldn’t make it up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bosshogg Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 B4. Your support of Derby County and positivity and optimism are always something I look for in posts on the forum. There will be a club to support even if the worst happens and people like you are exactly what we will need to go again. Don’t despair mate we are all feeling the strain IslandExile and BucksRam 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B4ev6is Posted January 19, 2022 Author Share Posted January 19, 2022 2 minutes ago, Bosshogg said: B4. Your support of Derby County and positivity and optimism are always something I look for in posts on the forum. There will be a club to support even if the worst happens and people like you are exactly what we will need to go again. Don’t despair mate we are all feeling the strain I am not very good at handling stressful things so right now I got my head back on stright just something that I needed get my head stright again. I am trying to be that leader once more we all need look after each other but hope mps can force boro and wycombe to drop there cases. Efl to drop the matter and give our points back. Crewton, Carnero, Bosshogg and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leeds Ram Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 3 minutes ago, BucksRam said: Sound advice. I've made a point today of generally staying off the internet for exactly that reason. I got totally drawn in yesterday and it dictated my emotions all day. It's one of my daughter's 13th today so focused on that. Presents, nice chat and a lovely family birthday meal out. Helped me touch ground again. Yeah, I'm trying to stay off social media as much as possible. I'm on a tight deadline for my thesis to be finished and this is deffo not the distraction I need. I hope your daughter had a lovely birthday ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ramchop Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 It breaks my heart to hear you talk like this mate, you're always banging the drum and ever the optimist As others have said, take a little break from checking the news every 5 mins, because right now there's not much we can do. Keep your chin up, and remember We're Derby County, we'll fight til the end! All those games where we pull it back from behind to win. How great does that feel? Well, we will have that feeling times a hundred thousand when we pull through the other side of this. The EFL have already scored an own goal so we need to push for a winner, and we have the support around the club and around football as a whole that the EFL, Boro, Wycombe, they are trying to hold out for a draw while we have gone all out attack. And Margaret Beckett has already exposed their full back and whipped in a great cross. Sooner or later that ball will be in the back of the net! IslandExile 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B4ev6is Posted January 19, 2022 Author Share Posted January 19, 2022 11 minutes ago, Leeds Ram said: Yeah, I'm trying to stay off social media as much as possible. I'm on a tight deadline for my thesis to be finished and this is deffo not the distraction I need. I hope your daughter had a lovely birthday ? Yes I want 2nd that I hope she had a lovely day and got everything she had asked for and I hope Derby win on saturday just for her. IslandExile 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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