dcfcfan1 Posted November 13, 2019 Share Posted November 13, 2019 On 12/11/2019 at 21:43, Dappled Ram said: Even when a baby is screaming it's head off remember this too will pass. Treasure and enjoy it all. It is over too soon. What the duck is there to enjoy about that lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ramslad1992 Posted November 13, 2019 Author Share Posted November 13, 2019 Sorry for lack of replies to other people who have quoted me, a few days ago my fiancée rang me at work to say she was bleeding, we have an emergency scan booked in for Friday (how the duck it can be an emergency and wait 5 days from booking is beyond me) but it’s not looking great, either way I’m sure I’ll get to be a ‘proper’ dad one day. I love my stepdaughter to the end of the earth but to be able to say ‘I made him/her’ is all I’ve ever wanted. I wasn’t sure whether to post this in here or the depression thread but the not knowing until Friday is properly killing me. Either way I just want to know for closure if nothing else. i-Ram, Steve How Hard?, Mucker1884 and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G STAR RAM Posted November 14, 2019 Share Posted November 14, 2019 9 hours ago, dcfcfan1 said: What the duck is there to enjoy about that lol It means you cant hear the wife nagging. dcfcfan1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G STAR RAM Posted November 14, 2019 Share Posted November 14, 2019 8 hours ago, Ramslad1992 said: Sorry for lack of replies to other people who have quoted me, a few days ago my fiancée rang me at work to say she was bleeding, we have an emergency scan booked in for Friday (how the duck it can be an emergency and wait 5 days from booking is beyond me) but it’s not looking great, either way I’m sure I’ll get to be a ‘proper’ dad one day. I love my stepdaughter to the end of the earth but to be able to say ‘I made him/her’ is all I’ve ever wanted. I wasn’t sure whether to post this in here or the depression thread but the not knowing until Friday is properly killing me. Either way I just want to know for closure if nothing else. Sorry, I made my last post before reading this, please don't think I was being insensitive. Sorry the hear your update too, obviously you will know more details than us but it's only human nature to fear the worst. Sure I wont be alone in having my fingers crossed for you on Friday and hoping it's just a false alarm. All the best to you and your partner ? Steve How Hard? and Ramslad1992 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dcfcfan1 Posted November 14, 2019 Share Posted November 14, 2019 17 hours ago, Ramslad1992 said: Sorry for lack of replies to other people who have quoted me, a few days ago my fiancée rang me at work to say she was bleeding, we have an emergency scan booked in for Friday (how the duck it can be an emergency and wait 5 days from booking is beyond me) but it’s not looking great, either way I’m sure I’ll get to be a ‘proper’ dad one day. I love my stepdaughter to the end of the earth but to be able to say ‘I made him/her’ is all I’ve ever wanted. I wasn’t sure whether to post this in here or the depression thread but the not knowing until Friday is properly killing me. Either way I just want to know for closure if nothing else. So sorry to hear that mate . Ramslad1992 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TomBustler1884 Posted November 14, 2019 Share Posted November 14, 2019 21 hours ago, Ramslad1992 said: Sorry for lack of replies to other people who have quoted me, a few days ago my fiancée rang me at work to say she was bleeding, we have an emergency scan booked in for Friday (how the duck it can be an emergency and wait 5 days from booking is beyond me) but it’s not looking great, either way I’m sure I’ll get to be a ‘proper’ dad one day. I love my stepdaughter to the end of the earth but to be able to say ‘I made him/her’ is all I’ve ever wanted. I wasn’t sure whether to post this in here or the depression thread but the not knowing until Friday is properly killing me. Either way I just want to know for closure if nothing else. This has happened to us before in different circumstances, all I will say is, a bleed doesn't always mean its the end of a pregnancy, so theres always hope until there isnt! Fingers crossed. Ramslad1992 and Steve How Hard? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rev Posted November 14, 2019 Share Posted November 14, 2019 22 hours ago, Ramslad1992 said: Sorry for lack of replies to other people who have quoted me, a few days ago my fiancée rang me at work to say she was bleeding, we have an emergency scan booked in for Friday (how the duck it can be an emergency and wait 5 days from booking is beyond me) but it’s not looking great, either way I’m sure I’ll get to be a ‘proper’ dad one day. I love my stepdaughter to the end of the earth but to be able to say ‘I made him/her’ is all I’ve ever wanted. I wasn’t sure whether to post this in here or the depression thread but the not knowing until Friday is properly killing me. Either way I just want to know for closure if nothing else. Sorry to hear this, but don't give up hope yet. My wife went through the same thing, yet everything turned out ok in the end. Hopefully you'll have the same outcome, fingers crossed for you and yours buddy. Steve How Hard? and Ramslad1992 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. P Posted November 15, 2019 Share Posted November 15, 2019 *SOME NAUGHTY WORDS IN THIS SO LISTEN ON LOW OR WITH HEADPHONES ON* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smyth_18 Posted November 15, 2019 Share Posted November 15, 2019 To add to previous comments. We had a bit of a scare whilst on our honeymoon in Thailand which was terrifying. All turned out ok and i hope that is the case for you today. Sending love and hope. Ramslad1992, ramit and Steve How Hard? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dcfcfan1 Posted November 15, 2019 Share Posted November 15, 2019 All the best today There's one thing not being able to have kids (my case ECT), but to have your baby taken away from you . ..dont want to even begin to imagine Hope it's just a scare Ramslad1992 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrivateDerby Posted November 15, 2019 Share Posted November 15, 2019 All the best to you both Ramslad. Ramslad1992 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ramslad1992 Posted November 15, 2019 Author Share Posted November 15, 2019 Hey guys, after not going to sleep until half 3 this morning due to all sorts of things running through my brain we went for the scan this morning at 8, after a little bit of a wait we were seen to be told that the baby was absolutely fine, had a heartbeat, 2 legs, 2 arms, was exactly where he/she should be and they didn’t know what caused the bleeding but there was nothing to suggest it was to do with the baby. Move been absolutely petrified of the worst over the last couple of days but being told that was genuinely the best thing to ever happen to me. Over the moon ? not much to look at just yet as it’s only been cooking for 9 weeks 2 days but here they are! ? Mucker1884, TomBustler1884, i-Ram and 11 others 7 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ramslad1992 Posted November 15, 2019 Author Share Posted November 15, 2019 Also thank you for all the kind words and thoughts, really meant a lot to me. ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dcfcfan1 Posted November 16, 2019 Share Posted November 16, 2019 Great news Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EtoileSportiveDeDerby Posted November 16, 2019 Share Posted November 16, 2019 Great news. Hope all goes smoothly over the next few weeks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G STAR RAM Posted November 16, 2019 Share Posted November 16, 2019 11 hours ago, Ramslad1992 said: Hey guys, after not going to sleep until half 3 this morning due to all sorts of things running through my brain we went for the scan this morning at 8, after a little bit of a wait we were seen to be told that the baby was absolutely fine, had a heartbeat, 2 legs, 2 arms, was exactly where he/she should be and they didn’t know what caused the bleeding but there was nothing to suggest it was to do with the baby. Move been absolutely petrified of the worst over the last couple of days but being told that was genuinely the best thing to ever happen to me. Over the moon ? not much to look at just yet as it’s only been cooking for 9 weeks 2 days but here they are! ? Easy to assume the worst isnt it? Genuinely delighted for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TomBustler1884 Posted November 16, 2019 Share Posted November 16, 2019 Absolutely thrilled for you @Ramslad1992, now you get to start panicking about all the crap you need to get!!!! Stay away from mothercare and mamas and papas, they're designed to terrify you into spending! rynny 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parsnip Posted November 16, 2019 Share Posted November 16, 2019 34 minutes ago, TomBustler1884 said: Stay away from mothercare I think you can get some bargains at Mothercare at the moment... https://www.ft.com/content/45ce2202-fff0-11e9-be59-e49b2a136b8d Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parsnip Posted November 16, 2019 Share Posted November 16, 2019 14 hours ago, Ramslad1992 said: had a heartbeat, 2 legs, 2 arms, was exactly where he/she should be Were they able to tell if he/she is a ram? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mucker1884 Posted November 16, 2019 Share Posted November 16, 2019 3 hours ago, Pastinaak said: Were they able to tell if he/she is a ram? They won't be able to do that until after the birth, when they can check the DNA yoof! ?? Parsnip 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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