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    dabber reacted to loweman2 in Derby County Shirt Collection   
    Advent 2020 day ten ! The barcode shirt ! A thing of wonder ! 



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    dabber got a reaction from TomG in Serdar Dursun   
    Assuming the contract (pre-contractual agreement) was signed before the restrictions, maybe it is another cunning loophole Mel has found to wind up Gibson further?!
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    dabber reacted to loweman2 in Derby County Shirt Collection   
    A bit of festive fun for the next few weeks, Christmas 2020 Day 1




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    dabber reacted to Ghost of Clough in Academy Thread 20/21   
    Can't refuse unless he's signed a pro deal. Considering his age I doubt that's the case.
    Being Cat 1 rather than 2 only means more money. If a player wants to leave and a club is willing to pay the compensation then there's nothing we can do.
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    dabber reacted to Shadowplay in New joke thread (trigger alert, may offend if you want it to)   
    The wife took me out for a drive in the countryside and she said to me sexily with a wink "why don't we do something we've never done in the car before"
    "Go on then" I said, "put it in 4th gear"
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    dabber reacted to RadioactiveWaste in Serdar Dursun   
    You know, if I was a footballer, I'd totally like posts from clubs just to wind fans up.
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    dabber reacted to Van der MoodHoover in Serdar Dursun   
    are we bringing back Joe Jordan? ?

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    dabber reacted to Turk Thrust in Random stuff that people do that annoy me   
    People who say and write “of” instead of “have”. Such as “would of” and “should of” etc. Quite a few posters on here do. 
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    dabber reacted to uttoxram75 in Derby County Flags   
    It was done on CNC machine by a mate of his for a present. I’ll try and find out a bit more about it.
    Id certainly pay for one if someone can make them?
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    dabber reacted to Animal is a Ram in Zanzala   
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    dabber reacted to Ramslad1992 in New parents   
    Hi everyone... I'm not to sure how to write this so I'll just go along with it and sorry for any waffling! 
    My absolutely amazing daughter was born last week on the 10th June in lincoln. Within minutes of her being born they realised something wasnt quite right and within 19 hours of being born she had been transferred to queens medical centre (which I've called home for the last week) and had life saving surgery. 
    She has a condition called Tracheo-Oesophageal Fistula... her food pipe and windpipe were joined and without the amazing work of our great NHS she wouldn't be here. 
    Shes got a long way to go but I'm forever proud of how much shes been through in just a week and I'll forever be grateful to everyone that's helped her and our NHS in general.
    As you can see by the photo shes already in training as the rams newest supporter! 

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    dabber reacted to Alph in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    It's too much though innit? 
    It's cool I guess having this projection of who we want to be and how we want people to see us. That's how we can become better and more successful. 
    Everything is on the tip of our fingers. We are just geared to getting it now. 
    Everything is there to make you the person you want to be. And in front of your eyes are projections of perfect Dave and his perfect life. You can literally have everything you want. And to prove it we'll take a little walk across social media at things like facebook where everyone else has achieved becoming a super awesome person, driving a super awesome car, going on super awesome holidays with super awesome friends having super awesome times. How much of it is real and how much is people presenting the projection of the person they want to become.
    I might be in danger of rambling on now. 
    But everything seems designed to inspire you to become a 6ft 4 entrepreneur with a chiselled jawline driving a flash car living in an American Dream home with lots of friends having a good time. 
    This is why ads are laser targeted to our phones. You even think of having a bicep and there's a gym being built on your street that can make you look like Anthony Joshua tomorrow. 
    No wonder people feel poo about themselves. 
    Nobody becomes the person they want to be. I don't believe it. You achieve one part of your projected self and then your projected self gets better. His house gets bigger. Whatever. 
    I think we touched on it in a thread about football fans being angry. It's just people expect instant now. And a lot of people are frustrated and boiling over. Somehow the way we work is that every is fed the fake ******** that they are important and they matter. 
    I think to be happy you have to find comfort in being you. You that has a bit of poo going on. 
    Work towards that projection. So @SaintRam, if you want to get through your poo then start with the most easily achievable thing. Do it. Do it properly. Don't try and go to the gym 25 hours a day and do your bathroom when you get home while building a life size Rolls Royce from matchsticks. 
    Be happy being a nobody that's working through their poo. You will never achieve that projected you. It's a ******** story sold to you like a gambling advert that tells you every day you will win £1m. It's an advert influenced facebook account belonging to BullshitRam. 
    All you really need is to dig out yourself a piece of happiness. Work towards the projection. Bit by bit. And you can have a house to be proud of. You can have a hobby. You can go to the gym. You can enjoy all that. But the goalposts will always move. 
    So just try to enjoy what you have and take steady steps towards what you want.
    I apologise if this made no sense. But I like this thread because it's the ******** in people's heads spat out onto a piece of paper. This is the ******** that I think has helped me. So maybe it can help someone else.
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    dabber reacted to Anag Ram in Watchable telly   
    Really enjoying series two of the Kominsky Method. 
    Great portrayal of friendship in later life with Michael Douglas and Alan Arkin on fine form. 
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    dabber reacted to MaltRam in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    Doggo update....he's fully mended.
    First time at the beach yesterday, wonderful.

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    dabber got a reaction from SunnyRam in RamsTV Feedback   
    Thanks for the replies, DAZN stated rights and restrictions for this game, but are clearly showing other Championship games so not sure what is unique about this one. Can still get the audio with RamsTV.
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    dabber reacted to BarrowRam in What are you eating tonight   
    Derbyshire tapas board at the Exeter Arms Derby. 

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    dabber reacted to Rev in Watchable telly   
    Started on BBC last night. 
    Apparently her son in this series is her real life nephew, and it's his cup, not hers, so I'll settle for his character dying!
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    dabber got a reaction from cosmic in RamsTV Feedback   
    Was supposed to be on DAZN here in Canada but has disappeared and not on Rams TV for me, so frustrated! Radio Derby audio is very jumpy!
    Not sure why DAZN dropped it, live chat did not help!
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    dabber reacted to froggg in Derbyshire/Staffordshire/Dorset and surrounding areas including France/Africa wildlife   
    Poor Pike gets nabbed by Great White Egret in the New Forest today.

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    dabber reacted to froggg in Picture where you, and your knee are now.   
    Peregrine attacking a Marsh Harrier over Stanpit Marsh.

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    dabber reacted to BobbyTheReadingFan in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    I agree with this.  I've read @David's view and I think it's overly simplistic as it's not quite as straight forward as you make it seem.  
    I've been a Police Officer for 12 years and throughout my adult life I've always been a more anxious person.  I've struggled to sleep at times.  
    People think anxiety = nerves and worry.  It doesn't just mean that.  It also means being unable to relax, having a brain that won't shut off, over thinking things and of course it does include nerves and worry that you mention.  Particularly with things like social situations, family events, meetings, big occasions, etc...
    The best way I can put it is, Anxiety doesn't have a reason to be there.  E.g. you may be chilled out, you may be off work, no issues, but you're still tightly wound, you still can't quite relax.  
    I'm not always anxious, but there is a reason that Depression and Anxiety goes together.  They feed off one another really well (unfortunately).
    ...
    In regards to Depression, it's a really weird beast.  For me it is a feeling of low energy, a zombie state, like I'm floating along without experiencing anything.  It feels like I have a massive weight on my shoulders.  I get more paranoid too about things that happen, like a comment a colleague makes, and I also want to just be alone.  
    I'm not even sad, really.  I'm just nothing really... just in an emotionless state.
    Depression is a massive spectrum.  It's not just someone being really sad, crying and all that.  I'm not like that at all.  
     
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    dabber reacted to loweman2 in The Forgotten Man !   
    Jim Walker the forgotten man
    As many of you know I have been for the last 18 months meeting up with the old brigade, the proper DCFC legends, the ones that put us on the map in footballing terms, the ones that made us the best team in England and got us to the European Cup semi finals, the teams of 71/72 and 74/75.
    It started off as way to spend time with my Dad who was a bit lost after the loss of my mum, he is a season ticket holder now and was back in the day so I started off out on a journey that has lead us to meet most of them, one of them remains elusive and one didn’t wish to participate.
    All of them have been fantastic, eager to tell stories of the great Brian Clough and the amazing fortunes of Derby County who in those bleak years of three day weeks, power blackouts, strikes and Rolls Royce nearly going under taking thousands of local jobs with it gave the people of Derby something to be proud of.
    Upon meeting one of those legends, Jim Walker I was particularly struck by how at peace he was with the world, very relaxed, very friendly and by far the best story teller of them all.
    Jim had not long ago lost his wife to illness so immediately him and my dad had something in common other than the love of football, he made us very welcome and gave us an open invite to go round when ever to continue with the tales.
    Now most people may remember Jim as the guy who was signed by Clough & Taylor from non league football to play for Derby County and was a major part of the team that won promotion from division two in 1968/69.
    He lost his place in the team to John Mcgovern but captained the reserves and stepped in when required to cover injuries of suspensions, this meant that he played only a few games in the 1971/72 season but it was his goal in a 1-0 win against Crystal Palace in late march that gave Derby both points and if you remember we won the league and finished first above dirty Leeds who were just one point behind and had a greater goal difference, so in effect Jim scored the goal that won us the First Division Championship.
    Aswell as a footballer Jim is probably better known as the Aston Villa physio, he was there for around twenty years and served under many managers including Graham Taylor, Ron Atkinson, Brian Little and John Gregory, he was also the man charged with looking after Paul McGrath for many years both on and off the pitch and is spoken of in very high regard in Pauls autobiography.
    He had a private practice at the Belfry for the golfers and was also the go to man at the NEC when any pop stars suffered an injury or needed attention from a physio, he worked with George Michael, Elton John, Neil Diamond, Michael Hutchence and Kylie to name a few hence him having so many fantastic stories.
    Jim has also had illnesses this however does not dampen his spirit or take a smile from his face.
    One thing that I was amazed to hear that Jim did not receive a medal for winning the league title despite being only one of sixteen players in that 71/72 season to have donned the shirt and scoring such a valuable goal.
    When ever you see the pictures of the team celebrating and holding up their medals jim does not have one.
    I approached Andy Ellis the club historian and the writer of many Derby County books and the fount of all knowledge and he confirmed it.
    So we the approached the club and asked if they would support an application to Gordon Taylor of the PFA to ask if he would inturn support an application to the football league to present Jim with the medal that he should have received 46 years ago.
    The club agreed and they sent the letter to Gordon Taylor who gave it his blessing and the approach was then made to the football league, this was back in February this year after the ball was started rolling in June of 2017 so it took a while.
    I am delighted to say that the agreement was given and Derby County approached the very same jewellers who had made the original ones to make one for Jim, to the exact specifications of the original medals and in the same box and made from 9ct gold with all of the hall marks.
    For some reason the club at this time can not be seen to publicly present Jim with the medal which is a great sadness as I thought that he was going to be able to step out on the pitch at Pride Park on the opening home game against Leeds (quite fitting as he stopped them winning the league with his goal), it is a litigious matter so I will comment no further other than to say that they did everything that they could.
    So to wrap up the story I had the great honour of going to Jims house today with my dad and my son and presenting him with his long overdue medal, he had no idea that it was coming and to say that he was over whelmed is an understatement.
    It was great to see his face and to have the privilege to do something like that, I had the medal at my house for a while but obviously didn’t want to post any pictures until now as it was a secret.
    Not very often that you get to present a league championship winning medal on behalf of Derby County and to one of the few from those great days and can be called the legends.
    We are hoping that Jim will still be able to have amore public presentation at sometime in the season at Pride Park when what ever issues are resolved.
    Up the Rams !!
     



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    dabber got a reaction from rynny in Beer Thread   
    Thank you revel, after past experiences on here I was a tad too nervous to google "Elvis juice"
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    dabber got a reaction from Rev in Beer Thread   
    Thank you revel, after past experiences on here I was a tad too nervous to google "Elvis juice"
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    Thank you revel, after past experiences on here I was a tad too nervous to google "Elvis juice"
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