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    ariotofmyown reacted to Ken Tram in Mental health of the most vulnerable fans ... if Derby are relegated   
    Despite the eccentricities of some on the forum, and massively passionate emotions - and despite knowing how terribly upset so many of us will be if we get relegated - we are lucky to be able to have this forum to get the stresses off our chests. 
    But I have just realised that with relegation being a real possibility - and with lockdown associated isolation, reducing the resilience of many - that for a few Derby County fans, they may be at much greater risk than would be usual when a team gets relegated.
    Derby County goes to the core of some, and for anyone more vulnerable than they might normally be in normal times, the risks may be higher for those few. (There will be some left feeling bereft by relegation - with this being on top of other problems - and with relegation pushing them over the edge - maybe.)
    Maybe the club might want to arrange counselling for the worse affected fans! Or something!
    Truly, maybe the club could subscribe to a helpline service for a few weeks - and advertise the number somehow - even during the match - in case of relegation!
    This is not a normal season, when the gut wrenching moment of relegation would be shared with thousands of others. For some, it will be felt alone. And for some, it will be on top of having vastly reduced resilience.
    It is a good job that we have this forum - for us lot to get Derby related stress off our chests! But, there'll be some isolated fans out there with no release!
    I know that I spout nonsense sometimes - and have terrible attempts at humour - but I don't think we should laugh about this.
    I might be worrying too much - but if others agree - and there is sufficient consensus - maybe David could pass on any such consensus to the club.
    I don't think that I am being unrealistic or over dramatic ...
    We fans all go through highs and lows - from minute to minute in games - match to match - season to season. That's part of being a fan. 
    I just wonder if lockdown might make it dangerously worse for a few fans out there? I doubt that it will include people on the forum.
    Maybe others can see the risks more clearly, or have good ideas about how best to reach out to anyone that might be at risk of we get relegated.
    (Basically, I have noticed how forum members are seemingly protecting themselves mentally - preparing themselves for the emotional roller coaster that would come from relegation. Many say that relegation is inevitable. They will be delighted to be proved wrong. But, they will cope with relegation better if it happens, I think. But, if so many forum members are doing things like this ... it made me realise that there will be some, out there, in a far more vulnerable state after a year of isolation - and I suddenly worried about how they will cope if we should be relegated.)
    (We are less likely to be relegated than the other two teams - but there is a significant chance that it will happen.)
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Boycie in Holiday Plans 2021   
    Yeah, green with envy list ?
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Rev in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    Good line from a Guardian columnist.
    "Being sacked by Boris for being unfaithful would be like be let go by Stalin, for being difficult to work with".
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Bald Eagle's Barmy Army in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    I understand it perfectly well, I just don’t believe the majority of it. And I back myself up when I see the whole shitshow the government serves up. 
     
    If you think you need to follow the sheep, you carry on fella. 
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    ariotofmyown reacted to uttoxram75 in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    Noam Chomsky sums it up well.....
     
    "It is important to bear in mind that political campaigns are designed by the same people who sell toothpaste and cars".
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    ariotofmyown reacted to B4ev6is in Light end of the tunnel for me   
    Well yesterday guys pain management final got into contact with me they rang my mum phone as just easier for me well guys towards end of july I got to go for another cov 19 test but then I am having neve blocking injections but once my cov19 test been done then I have to self isolate which means I will miss both pre season friendly sigh.
    Wish me look guys I just hope these injections work but I am facing my fear of needles I got a feeling going to hurt like hell.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Archied in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    Boris says apology is good end of matter ,,,,,,Genuine question, are we at an all time low in terms of our politicians and government?
    I really believe we are but maybe I’m just over egging it ??‍♂️
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Gritstone Ram in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    Not really! The lateral flow test is for when you don’t have symptoms a PCR test is what you should have if you feel ill. This is exactly how it spreads when people don’t understand what these things are for.
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    ariotofmyown got a reaction from Stive Pesley in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    Can't for the life of me work out why they would have gone big on the BBC.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to GboroRam in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    Is this the same Daily Mail that took massive objection (rightly) to the BBC footage of Christian Eriksen's heart attack and close-up of his team mates' reactions, who printed still pictures of him being attended on the pitch and close-up's of his wife's reaction?
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    ariotofmyown reacted to DarkFruitsRam7 in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    I can understand different opinions on lockdown measures, but this is a very strange thing to brag about.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to BaaLocks in EFL Verdict   
    Married to the sister of the writer of the theme tune to Neighbours. I challenge anyone to get a more tenuous Mike Pejic link than that one.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Stive Pesley in EFL Verdict   
    Agree - lots of good points in there
    What I keep coming back to is the fact that the EFL, although there is a governing body -  are actually made up of the member teams
    We know that *certain* other members have it in for us (mentioning no Gibsons) but what must the other members think when they see how we're being treated? The precedent is being set that the EFL can approve something but then at an unspecified point in the future, change their minds and seek to punish clubs. 
    Surely no other members want that? Surely they all want a fair and consistently applied set of clear rules
     
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    ariotofmyown reacted to hintonsboots in Sports minister emails.   
    tracey.crouch.mp.parliament.uk
    footballgovernancereview@dcms.gov.uk
     
    I have emailed the sports minister and the football governance review body and my local MP, in case Crouchy won’t deal with my email as I’m not a constituent.
    I think all Rams fans should do the same, as the EFL is out of control and not showing any fairness in its approach.
    Every bit helps !!
     
    I would ask you urgently to intervene in the witch-hunt being undertaken by the EFL towards my football club, Derby County. 
    Having been fined £100 000 yesterday and warned re future accounting practices, following investigation by an independent panel ( for the second time), the EFL continue to press for a points deduction, with an unprecedented aim to relegate the club after the season has finished.
    What is the point of an independent panel if its decision is not respected by the regulator ?
    I feel the EFL is out of control, is being heavily influenced by third parties and is therefore not acting in a fair and unbiased way.
    The EFL needs to be warned by the government about its behaviour towards its member clubs. Currently its approach is verging on bullying and I suspect it will end in the High Court, with the destruction of a founder member of the football league and hundreds of associated redundancies.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Premier ram in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    Dominic Cummings is a peeping tom now, got to be his work all this
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    ariotofmyown reacted to DarkFruitsRam7 in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    I was about to say the exact same. Imagine you're having the worst day of your life thanks to someone else's actions and those scumbags start following you round taking pictures.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to G STAR RAM in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    So we can all decide if Hancock made a good decision or not?
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    ariotofmyown reacted to The Scarlet Pimpernel in EFL Verdict   
    We need a respected sports journalist to put some time looking into all this and then write a damning article about the EFL. This has descended beyond chronic incompetence it is now nothing short of victimisation.
    I repeat what I said on another thread. At this moment in time it is not established if we gained an unfair advantage regarding FFP as our revised accounts have not been submitted, so put that in the pending file! Regarding our lack of clarity in declaring out unique but legal amortisation policy we have been found guilty on appeal and fined £100k. End of!!
    What the heck are Wycombe on about? IF and its a big IF we eventually fail FFP when our accounts are submitted then blame the EFL for taking too long to sort it out but what has that got to do with DCFC?  
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Ghost of Clough in EFL Verdict   
    If it was an open letter with national papers reporting on it?
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Long Time Lurker in EFL Verdict   
    Eaton Ram's reference to Rams Trust has made me wonder whether we could get something out of the EFL through a letter along the lines of the one sent to the Club recently signed by Rams Trust, Punjabi Rams, Ryan Hills etc.  The letter could ask the EFL:
    How their approach meets with their stated aim of protecting clubs, particularly in respect of Derby.  Can they give any examples of where they have acted in good faith towards the club? What reassurances they can offer to DCFC staff whose jobs are under threat through the continued uncertainty Can they explain why an accounting technicality should lead to people losing their livelihoods, even when those people have had nothing to do with accounting procedures etc Is it their intention to continually appeal against any decision that does not go their way?  If so, can the explain the moral justification for such an approach? Can they also provide justification for deciding to reject an accounting practice that they had previously accepted when signing off the accounts?  Do they feel any responsibility for having made what they now seem to consider an error, and if so what redress are they making as a result? what, if any responsibility, do they feel towards the fans of DCFC, and do they understand the effect their actions are having on at least some of them? They have been reported to be keen to see Derby relegated.  Can they explain to the Derby fanbase whether this is in fact the case, and if so, their justification for acting in such a way? Etc Etc I think a letter coming from specific groups rather than an individual stands a better chance of getting a response.  That response is very likely to be that it's all Derby's fault, and that people will lose their jobs etc due to the clubs actions etc, they have to be fair to the other clubs blah blah.  However, it may be worth a try?
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    ariotofmyown reacted to FrostedRam in Papa John’s trophy   
    Seems like we’ve also provisionally been entered into this as well
    our group is in the southern section 
    Group ? MK Dons, Burton Albion, Wycombe Wanderers/Derby County, Aston Villa Under-21s
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Stive Pesley in The coronabrexit thread. I mean, coronavirus thread   
    It certainly feels like someone has it in for him. How many people have access to Westminster private office CCTV?!
    Mind you Bojo is on shaky ground if boffing someone who isn't your wife, but who you are giving public money too is seen to be a sackable offence..
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