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    Archie reacted to Srg in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.   
    Reminder that this was Forest’s opinion of VAR after their promotion…
     
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    Archie reacted to Shipley Ram in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.   
    What an eccentric way to run a club, perhaps this is the answer

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    Archie reacted to Foreveram in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.   
    Florist in 17th place in the league, if they hadn’t been deducted 4 points they’d be, er … 17th.
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    Archie got a reaction from Crewton in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.   
    Florest to lose the next two; away at Everton and home to Man City while Luton beat Brentford at home and Wolves away to go 6 points clear of the trees with 3 games left. I really think it's possible. 🤞
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    Archie got a reaction from TigerTedd in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.   
    Florest to lose the next two; away at Everton and home to Man City while Luton beat Brentford at home and Wolves away to go 6 points clear of the trees with 3 games left. I really think it's possible. 🤞
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    Archie reacted to Old Spalding Ram in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.   
    Forest v Wolverhampton Wanderers attendance 29.604
    Derby v Leyton Orient attendance 30,247
    ……………………….. no further comment required
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    Archie reacted to ThePrisoner in New Kit supplier   
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    Archie reacted to Mucker1884 in Promotion Rivals Watch   
    You obviously didn't know about the bloke that left 5 minutes before you got back.
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    Archie reacted to Bluebazooka in Pompey fan in peace   
    For those of you who have been to fratton park before, you'll find a complete transformation of the away end now. 
    It's been transformed and now has safe standing, plus you can now buy alcohol, which up until a few months ago was prohibited. 
    Fair play lads, you've sold your allocation, so look forward to 2,000+ rams adding to a great atmosphere. 
    The match is a complete sell out, so crowd should be aproching 21,000
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    Archie reacted to Day in More to life than Football.   
    Pull up a chair, this will be a long one.
    Me and my wife Leanne have been together 8 years and 5 months, we have been trying for a baby for around 6/7 years. Nothing happened. Leanne has been desperate for our own little baby and seeing friends around us start families has been hard for her.
    It’s been hard for myself as I later found out it was probably my fault following a sperm test.
    Just before Covid we went to explore IVF options where I was given a sperm test, the results were basically I have swimmers, just not enough to put me in the “normal” range. Not impossible I could get Leanne pregnant, just harder than it would be for others.
    Covid landed, lockdown, all non essential treatment and hospital appointments were cancelled, so our doctors asked us to come back once life returned to normal.
    Fast forward to August 2023, we returned to the doctors knowing the clock was ticking, Leanne turns 40 this year and would already be classified as a “geriatric”, whilst myself a slightly younger Des O’Connor.
    Anyway, they started testing Leanne, she was all clear, I was given another tube to fill and arrange an appointment with the hospital. Contacting them I was told there is such a backlog, we would be waiting until the new year, side note, we’re almost April and I’m still yet to receive a call back.
    As I have mentioned elsewhere, October 27th our great nephews moved in with us under an emergency kinship fostering placement, since then we have been undergoing various assessments and training.
    We go to the fostering panel to be confirmed foster parents on April 11th.
    We was also willing to go down the SGO (Special guardianship order) route which would see them stay with us until they were 18.
    Now, this is an important bit. We live in a small 2 bedroom house, me and Leanne looked at it and said maybe this is our calling, maybe we just weren’t meant to have our own and threw ourselves into the boys creating a special bond.
    Monday 12th February, 2024, Leanne woke me up in tears saying we need to talk. My eyes had barely adjusted to the daylight before a positive pregnancy test was thrust into my face.
    What. The. f***.
    We quickly went to Morrison’s to buy another one, just to double check, this time a digital one. Both ClearBlue so super accurate.
    The pregnancy was confirmed, 2-3 weeks it said.
    We hadn’t bothered to be “careful” as we figured it was never going to happen naturally, but it had so now we was left with a huge dilemma. The boys were meant to be our future now. But it’s a 2 bedroom house.
    It completely took the shine off what should have been the happiest time of our lives, Leanne’s family were also not fully invested into the joy with concern over what would happen to the boys.
    After a few emotional discussions into the early mornings, exploring all possibilities, we ultimately decided to let social services know that we cannot be considered as long term placement if needed.
    At this point and to this day, their mum is still waiting on her assessment to see if they can ever be returned.
    We could not abort, we could not move as we have a small amount of debt that would prevent us getting a new mortgage for a much larger house.
    March 9th, we visited the midwife who dated the pregnancy from Leanne’s last recorded period December 18th. A 12 week scan was booked for 21st March however she was told that she would be 13 weeks by then.
    Sickness, tender breasts, the lot, this was all very real.
    The wait for the 21st March seemed like forever.
    The weekend prior, Leanne had very very light spotting and discharge which freaked us both out, quick call to the midwife and told not to worry, just come in if it’s heavy bleeding and she’s in pain.
    On the 20th, I had a tattoo appointment, super excited and determined to bring some positivity to a stressed out wife, I get “Daddy” inked on my neck, at the neckline of a t shirt.  I was uncontrollably excited by this point.
    Next morning we go in, soon called into the Ultrasound room, I bounce in rubbing my hands joking just the one please.
    Monitor boots up, Leanne laid back with the biggest smile on her face unable to see the monitor.
    I look up and the gestation sac is empty.
    All life inside me just melted.
    The midwife asked when we last took a pregnancy test, to which Leanne responded and was then asked if she would be happy to have an internal scan.
    Whilst the midwife left the room I was in a daze, taking pictures of the screens.
    Internal scan complete, we was simply told to get ourselves ready and we will be shown to the counselling room.
    Both in tears, we was led away and left to sit in this room for half hour or so before another midwife appeared giving us 3 options.
    Let it come out naturally.
    Take medication to force it out which can be super painful.
    Or surgery, which is a vacuum basically which sucks it out.
    Period of silence followed and we was shown out the side door, absolutely devastated.
    We sat in the car park at a complete loss. I had the announcement board ready to go, bought the little lamb rattle, we had it all planned and it was over.
    After an hour we went home, packed our bags and basically ran away for the weekend leaving the boys with their Nan. We couldn’t face being “parents” surrounded by toys at this time.
    Work were great, signed us both off with paid leave.
    The weekend was spent crying, drinking, walking, crying.
    We returned Monday, still an emotional mess but able to function at least.
    The hospital rang asking if we had made a decision, on Tuesday Leanne booked the surgery for the Wednesday. That Tuesday night went to visit a friend who was questioning the dates, could they be wrong, is it earlier than we think, ask for a second scan to confirm.
    On looking at the scan, the gestation sac was 1D 25mm, 2D 29mm and 3D 29mm. I’m googling sac sizes at 1am and see that is 8 weeks. 5 weeks earlier than what we was told.
    Leanne’s now questioning if she forgot to record a period I said look, we’ll ask for a confirmation scan to be sure.
    That morning, we go into SDEC (Same day emergency care), nurse calls us in, Leanne breaks down so I take over asking for a confirmation scan. They were great and said of course, booking us in for April 2nd.
    I would have declined the 1st for obvious reasons.
    We’re sat here now 99% believing we’ve lost the baby, however we need that 1% of doubt clearing away with this confirmation scan on Tuesday. Even a scan at an earlier date should have shown more than just the gestation sac and yolk sac.
    I’m back to work on Monday, needing some normality back in my life, although Tuesday after the scan won’t be much fun.
    This week that’s just gone, Wednesday 27th, the Boys mum had her assessment heard at panel, we’re now just waiting to hear from the social services to see how that went and would they be returned or not.
    We have some difficult decisions ahead if she doesn’t, as now Leanne’s “oven has been warmed”, we’re desperate more than ever for our own little baby, yet fully aware Leanne turns 40 in a couple of months and I’m 42 myself.
    It really needs to happen now, or not at all. Seeing Cameron Diaz having her second at 51 years old the other week, not sure how I feel as the old you get the more our bodies begin to tire and develop issues where running after children becomes more difficult.
    All family options for the boys have been exhausted, so it’s either us, their mum or adoption. Being 2 and 3 they are the prime age to be adopted yet we would never see them again and that would f’in hurt, especially if me and Leanne are not successful in having our own.
    I'm sharing this as men don't like to talk and when 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage, many men will have been in similar situations and struggle in silence. Whilst the woman will ultimately bare the most pain and need the most support, it still f'in hurts....a lot.
    So yeah, coming on here reading how Paul Warne is a terrible football manager, being 2nd is pure luck and all the rest of the negative hyperbole just hasn’t been at the top of the list to absorb. 
    More to life than football has never been more true.
    You know the old saying though, behind every successful forum owner, behind him is a team of amazing moderators. Big thanks to them for carrying the load whilst I spend time supporting the wife.
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    Archie got a reaction from Carnero in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.   
    This doesn't seem right to me. I think the lawyers of Burnley, Luton, Brentford and even Everton should be rallying for this to be reviewed. 
    Smelly fishy.
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    Archie got a reaction from Crewton in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.   
    This doesn't seem right to me. I think the lawyers of Burnley, Luton, Brentford and even Everton should be rallying for this to be reviewed. 
    Smelly fishy.
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    Archie reacted to Alph in Palestine   
    Lindsay Hoyle apologised. Said he made a mistake. But clearly he didn't make a mistake. He's doubled down on it. 
    The protection offered to Israel is disgusting. They can't even call out Islamophobia now when it's blatant but have been smearing everyone opposed to the mass murder as antisemtic. Still we send them weapons. 
    We condemn Houthi attacks in shipping lanes. But we can't condemn Israel blocking aid trucks. The world is pretty much united in a ceasefire. The world has seen enough murdered Palestinians. But not America or Britain. They stand isolated in support of Israel. Calling Peace Protests "Hamas supporters". Crying about the chants of "From the River to the sea" while the Likud Party policy is the exact same. 
    The Iraq war was shameful. This? This is complicity in ethnic cleansing and collective punishment. Perhaps genocide. That's what our politicians are about. 
    Anybody who tries to muddy the waters with this "self defence" or "collateral damage" or any despicable gaslighting bs... You should be ashamed of yourselves. 
     
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    Archie got a reaction from SKRam in Derby v Stevenage FC - Match Day Thread   
    Recall Brown, get Gayle in, get Wash and Waggy back fit. Give Sibley more in the final third. Shop around for another out of contract - tall holding striker. 
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    Archie got a reaction from Kathcairns in Bradford City at home Match Thread   
    Absolutely woeful, atrocious 96 mins. Insult to football. I guess in the grand scheme of things it matters a jot but still turn up and give it a go. Your profession demands it. Disgraceful performance. Utter cobblers. 
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    Archie reacted to Crewton in Final bits of the Jigsaw   
    I agree. We had a bad January last year through not strengthening at all, but an even worse one in 2007 and 2008 because we signed too many players, most of whom added nothing to the team.
    If we end the window with all our key players still at the club plus an additional central striker and a creative attacking forward/midfielder/left-sided winger, I'll be absolutely delighted.
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    Archie reacted to Alph in Palestine   
    Criticise Israel. Get called Antisemetic. Standard
    I stand with the Jews, Christians, Catholics, Muslims etc that oppose Israel's aggressive expansionists campaign against Semite people. Against the Arab Muslims who don't know what prejudice is. 
    If it makes people feel better to call such a stance antisemetic or label us Nazis then that's fine. Absolutely fine. Because the calls won't be stifled by this scare tactic. 
    There's Jewish protesters in America being verbally abused by Jews right now for their stance on Israel. 
    Islamophobia increased by 600%. So?
    Attacks on Muslims increase every time some lunatic twists the words of the Qur'an and carries out some horrific act of terrorism. Muslim communities have to defend themselves on quite a regular basis. 
    And when a vile humans like Suella Braverman press activate on right wing mobs to come and defend our shores from these terrorists. But we must be careful not to offend her. Feck her. Racist. 
    Muslim communities feel insecure as UKIP, EDL, BNP etc have their marches and campaigns. 
    Commonly misrepresented in TV and Hollywood. 
    I said the other day. Click on the mainstream media comments section. See the open racism. Not even disguised
    Rachel Riley - 'Nobody cared about Muslims before and they only care now because they're antisemetic'.... Yes Rachel. Nobody did care before. So we've established that. Good. Now let's analyse why they care now? Is it because they're antisemetic or is it possible that Israel don't represent all Jews and the IDF are terrorists? 
    .....
    Anyway, I realise what I'm doing is comparing racism rather than condemning all of it. Of course there's a rise in antisemetism. There's hate in the air. Every Nazi out there will piggyback on this. 
    But it's a classic defence of Israel to play this card. As if there isn't a million reasons to be against Israel's policy. 
    Whenever you look at Israeli defence it's based around being the victim. Being surrounded by enemies. Being a population of people persecuted through history. Being systematically tortured and slaughtered by Hitler. At what point does this stop being context and become an excuse for their behaviour. It's a brutal question. But when? When all the Palestinians are pushed into Sinai? When 20,000 Gazans are dead? 200,000? When the West Bank is 10% smaller? 20%? When Israel borders Iran? When the tension between Iran and Saudi reaches an all time high? When the oil rich nation of Iran must beg America to take it's resources at great discount through the "peace corridor"? 
    When? When does context become excuse? Never? 
    Netenyahu and his mob are Zionist war criminals. As vile as Hamas. There are many Zionist lunatics in Israel. And it's these we must oppose. As we must seek to remove Hamas in a realistic way. 
    If they want to hide behind antisemetism then you must accept the label and drive on. With support from the countless Jews who recognise the Apartheid regime. 
    I hope I haven't offended any Jews. I don't think I've been racist here. My anger is purely at the Imperial scum who disgustingly hide behind the atrocities commited against Jewish people while they kill Palestine's future
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    Archie reacted to Day in B4 - for ever a Ram 🐏   
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    Archie reacted to CanRam in B4 - for ever a Ram 🐏   
    My deepest sympathy to B4’s family and friends.
    As an overseas fan, I watch RamsTV and also read the forum as it brings me closer to home and provides a more a personal and human side to following the Rams. B4 was certainly a star if the forum and I always enjoyed reading his posts. He will be missed by folks not only in Derby, but by us fans scattered around the world.
    RIP B4
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    Archie reacted to B4’s Sister in B4 - for ever a Ram 🐏   
    Oh my goodness, what a response!
    Hello everyone, I’m Claire, Daniel’s (B4) sister. I am overwhelmed by your kind words, support, and the memories you have shared.  Thank you so much for the kindness and love you have all shown to Daniel over the years. My parents are working their way through all of the posts and will offer their own thanks in due course.
    I wish I knew about the scraves, flanges and ballions before now. I wouldn’t have let Daniel live that down at home. This made my husband and I laugh this morning.
    I will be wearing Daniel’s shirt and keeping his seat warm at the Bristol match. Really looking forward to hearing a big cheer and round of applause in the 38th minute, a goal at the time would be perfect!  Do please continue to share the picture with details of the applause. Let’s raise the roof for Daniel!!!
    Thank you all again ❤️
    #BeMoreB4 
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    Archie reacted to Mostyn6 in B4 - for ever a Ram 🐏   
    <insert club name> are looking to buy Derby County youngster <insert player name> and are preparing a £500k bid.
    B4 "I'd tell them £20m or get lost" 😄
    Brilliant. Bitter Sweet Grin on my face right now.
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    Archie got a reaction from Premier ram in B4 - for ever a Ram 🐏   
    My sincere condolences to B4's family, friends and all on this forum - he has clearly touched a lot of lives, upsetting news to read. It will certainly be a different forum without him. 
     
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