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Boycie reacted to davenportram in How to be a dad, any advice
There isn’t a manual but my advice, based on nothing more than my own meandering experiences is as follows
https://youtu.be/EcM3rexWLdk?si=6QQgZHzyiRtc0L61
seriously there’s some good advice in that.
stay true to yourself, never undermine your misses in front of family or children or anyone but do address differences in opinion privately
Never say “ My mum reckons you should …”
do say “ take you’re coat off or you won’t feel the benefit”
never go back on a sanction - I once “threw away” my sons entire collection of Pixar Cars toys when he refused to tidy them up - I did fish them out the bin while he was asleep and the good fairies returned them as a reward for keeping his room tidy.
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Boycie got a reaction from Big Al in How to be a dad, any advice
In some respects @i-Ram is doing what I’m about to offer advice about.
You do what you have to do. Don’t think there’s a text book that you have to follow or be judged on.
We do our best. You’ll be fine, just be there and do your best.
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Boycie got a reaction from davenportram in How to be a dad, any advice
In some respects @i-Ram is doing what I’m about to offer advice about.
You do what you have to do. Don’t think there’s a text book that you have to follow or be judged on.
We do our best. You’ll be fine, just be there and do your best.
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Boycie reacted to i-Ram in How to be a dad, any advice
Well this will be at least an 18 year thread, and probably more. My lad is 31 and tonight I have had to help him with an emotional break-up. My best advice is to prepare Eva as best you can to be able to hit adulthood confidently. Parenting isn’t easy, but it can be so very rewarding. Good luck on your new journey.
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Boycie reacted to Crewton in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.
OK Steve, tell us how you're feeling right now?
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Boycie reacted to B4’s Sister in Show us your baubles
That’s good going. The hubby isn’t allowed to touch some decorations - far too clumsy. This is my favourite decoration 🤣
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Boycie reacted to Stagtime in Picture where you, and your knee are now.
Cruising the South Pacific into the Coral Sea, somewhere over there is Noumea New Caledonia.
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Boycie got a reaction from Crewton in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.
Not sure if mentioned before, did Forest sing champions of Europe you’ll never sing that?
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Boycie got a reaction from Norman in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.
Not sure if mentioned before, did Forest sing champions of Europe you’ll never sing that?
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Boycie reacted to MaltRam in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.
Chortle.
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Boycie reacted to RadioactiveWaste in Serial Whingers Notts Forest playtime, which we simply cannot accept.
Just a bank holiday somewhere, nothing to worry about 🤫
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Boycie got a reaction from Ted McMinn Football Genius in Rebecca Welch
I think we’ve had her twice.
stop it!
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Boycie reacted to Steve How Hard? in Archie Brown
This is the only flemish I understand. Good old Bob Fleming.
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Boycie reacted to Mucker1884 in B4 - for ever a Ram 🐏
It’s never easy, Claire, but it does help (immensely) to enjoy the memories.
Rule No1 in my book is never feel guilty about smiling… or laughing… about our lost loved ones.
Yes, that in itself may sometimes lead to tears and literal heartache, but occasionally to more smiles, and more laughter. It feels bad. It feels wrong. But in reality, it’s healthy. It’s normal.
The next few days in particular will no doubt feel like a roller coaster… physically and mentally.
None of us can stop the ride, but we can hold your hand and help you through it.
Stay strong for your parents, for Daniel, and most importantly for yourself.
We’re all here for you.
You’re our sister now.
xxx 🤍
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Boycie reacted to B4’s Sister in B4 - for ever a Ram 🐏
It feels surreal coming on here and having so many other people ‘get’ Daniel and also feeling his loss. I’m having a bad day today with it hitting home that he’s gone. It’s a bit less lonely hearing others speak about him 😢
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Boycie reacted to Wolfie20 in Tiresome Oneupmanship
OMG -that's in the hands of @Boycie? Has @David taken leave of his senses?
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Boycie reacted to Teesste in B4 - for ever a Ram 🐏
Boro fan here, donning hard hat and coming in peace.
Been an occasional stalker on this board (ever since all the unpleasantness!) but felt compelled to register today after seeing this sad news.
B4 was a poster I saw popping up on almost every thread that appeared on here and his passion for his football team was so clear with every word he typed. Fans with this level of devotion are few and far between and should be treasured by clubs and other fans alike. I'm sure he will leave a huge hole behind for everyone who knew him. Sending condolences to all friends, family and fellow DCFC supporters for your loss.
All the best, Steve (not that one!)
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Boycie got a reaction from Stive Pesley in Looking abroad
We can take players from Rwanda if we send them some from here.
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Boycie got a reaction from Eddie in Looking abroad
We can take players from Rwanda if we send them some from here.