EdinRam
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EdinRam got a reaction from samwcave in How you holding up ...
I wonder if Cardiff would see the funny side of us and Wednesday dropping
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EdinRam reacted to IslandExile in Wayne Rooney
What Rooney says to the players tomorrow is critical...
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EdinRam reacted to Ken Tram in Mental health of the most vulnerable fans ... if Derby are relegated
Despite the eccentricities of some on the forum, and massively passionate emotions - and despite knowing how terribly upset so many of us will be if we get relegated - we are lucky to be able to have this forum to get the stresses off our chests.
But I have just realised that with relegation being a real possibility - and with lockdown associated isolation, reducing the resilience of many - that for a few Derby County fans, they may be at much greater risk than would be usual when a team gets relegated.
Derby County goes to the core of some, and for anyone more vulnerable than they might normally be in normal times, the risks may be higher for those few. (There will be some left feeling bereft by relegation - with this being on top of other problems - and with relegation pushing them over the edge - maybe.)
Maybe the club might want to arrange counselling for the worse affected fans! Or something!
Truly, maybe the club could subscribe to a helpline service for a few weeks - and advertise the number somehow - even during the match - in case of relegation!
This is not a normal season, when the gut wrenching moment of relegation would be shared with thousands of others. For some, it will be felt alone. And for some, it will be on top of having vastly reduced resilience.
It is a good job that we have this forum - for us lot to get Derby related stress off our chests! But, there'll be some isolated fans out there with no release!
I know that I spout nonsense sometimes - and have terrible attempts at humour - but I don't think we should laugh about this.
I might be worrying too much - but if others agree - and there is sufficient consensus - maybe David could pass on any such consensus to the club.
I don't think that I am being unrealistic or over dramatic ...
We fans all go through highs and lows - from minute to minute in games - match to match - season to season. That's part of being a fan.
I just wonder if lockdown might make it dangerously worse for a few fans out there? I doubt that it will include people on the forum.
Maybe others can see the risks more clearly, or have good ideas about how best to reach out to anyone that might be at risk of we get relegated.
(Basically, I have noticed how forum members are seemingly protecting themselves mentally - preparing themselves for the emotional roller coaster that would come from relegation. Many say that relegation is inevitable. They will be delighted to be proved wrong. But, they will cope with relegation better if it happens, I think. But, if so many forum members are doing things like this ... it made me realise that there will be some, out there, in a far more vulnerable state after a year of isolation - and I suddenly worried about how they will cope if we should be relegated.)
(We are less likely to be relegated than the other two teams - but there is a significant chance that it will happen.)
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EdinRam got a reaction from EraniosSocks in Derby vs Sheff W (H) Matchday Thread
We probably have the same mindset!
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EdinRam got a reaction from BoroBlade87 in Derby vs Sheff W (H) Matchday Thread
I wish you were my dad
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EdinRam got a reaction from Red_Dawn in Too big to go down
Heard this quite a bit in forums and WhatsApp groups, what category do we sit in? We haven't been a premier league side in years and I don't really see us as a big club, on a par with Preston I'd say. If I were to break down the championship I'd put clubs of size in thirds of pedigree
Top third -
Forest (I know)
Boro
Norwich
Watford
Blackburn
Sheff wed
Qpr
Brum
Middle third -
Derby
Preston
Stoke
Coventry
Millwall
Cardiff
Swansea
Reading
Bottom third -
Rotherham
Bristol
Luton
Wycombe
Barnsley
Bournemouth
Brentford
Huddersfield
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EdinRam reacted to Andicis in Worst fans in the world?
I don't know what this post is really? Do you really think you're morally superior to other fans because you don't moan at the football? There is no right way to support. Climb down from your high horse.
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EdinRam reacted to Gringo in Worst fans in the world?
Based on the idiotic ramblings on here over the past month or so, I have come to the firm conclusion that we have some of the worst “fans” in the footballing world.
At least 50% plus of the posters on this site it would seem are praying we get relegated so that they can scream “I told you so” in their insane vitriolic campaign against Wayne, Mel and the players
The older and wiser posters on here have been in this situation before and can handle our current predicament, we need supporters who will support our club and not to behave like headless gutless chickens.
I firmly believe we will not go down but on the very slim chance that we do, the world will not stop spinning and the club will go on and it will not go bust, we need a bit of Dunkirk spirit to be shown by our supporters, not the defeatist attitude I keep reading.
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EdinRam got a reaction from Dimmu in Alonso Taunting Chansiri
Not even owning the club yet and he's embarrassing us.
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EdinRam got a reaction from Deej in Alonso Taunting Chansiri
Not even owning the club yet and he's embarrassing us.
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EdinRam got a reaction from GboroRam in Alonso Taunting Chansiri
Not even owning the club yet and he's embarrassing us.
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EdinRam got a reaction from S8TY in Too big to go down
Heard this quite a bit in forums and WhatsApp groups, what category do we sit in? We haven't been a premier league side in years and I don't really see us as a big club, on a par with Preston I'd say. If I were to break down the championship I'd put clubs of size in thirds of pedigree
Top third -
Forest (I know)
Boro
Norwich
Watford
Blackburn
Sheff wed
Qpr
Brum
Middle third -
Derby
Preston
Stoke
Coventry
Millwall
Cardiff
Swansea
Reading
Bottom third -
Rotherham
Bristol
Luton
Wycombe
Barnsley
Bournemouth
Brentford
Huddersfield
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EdinRam got a reaction from Chris_Martin in Wayne Rooney
I think no matter what he won't be here next season, do you think he will go on to be a good manager? Unlike Frank I don't think Rooney has the tactical brain unfortunately. Top player though.
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EdinRam got a reaction from deanoakaram4life in Wayne Rooney
I think no matter what he won't be here next season, do you think he will go on to be a good manager? Unlike Frank I don't think Rooney has the tactical brain unfortunately. Top player though.
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EdinRam got a reaction from DCFC1388 in Wayne Rooney
I think no matter what he won't be here next season, do you think he will go on to be a good manager? Unlike Frank I don't think Rooney has the tactical brain unfortunately. Top player though.
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EdinRam got a reaction from jimtastic56 in Wayne Rooney
I think no matter what he won't be here next season, do you think he will go on to be a good manager? Unlike Frank I don't think Rooney has the tactical brain unfortunately. Top player though.
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