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ariotofmyown

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    ariotofmyown reacted to cstand in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    Don’t think Rice or Bellingham deserve that treatment.
    Hopefully have you replied to the wrong post. 😂
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    ariotofmyown got a reaction from Comrade 86 in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    Breaking news: thick, tabloid reading English thugs are NOT influenced by continual demonisation of foreigners they read/hear about every day from morally bankrupt media performers.
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    ariotofmyown got a reaction from TigerTedd in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    Who else starts chanting "Derby" when ITV reads the postcode out for their competition?
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Fraser_23 in Herbie Kane   
    Currently out in germany and bumped into some Barnsley Fans that are adamant Kane is joining us. They’ve said they’re going to be meeting him later in Essen, so i’ll make it my mission to find him and ask him the question! 
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    ariotofmyown reacted to therealhantsram in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    Surely the obvious answer to an injured Kane would be to play Bellingham in the false 9 role he plays for Madrid.
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    ariotofmyown got a reaction from Reggie Greenwood in Twitter Rebrand to 𝕏   
    "We should have appeased Hitler" is now "non-progressive" in our zany, polorised world.
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    ariotofmyown got a reaction from Reggie Greenwood in Twitter Rebrand to 𝕏   
    Archeology = 2 years ago.
    I've got in-date food items in the cupboard that are older than a certain "non-progressive" post.
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    ariotofmyown got a reaction from Comrade 86 in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    Also, you don't neccersarily need a proper centre forward in the Kane mould. 
    He's a great player, so we set up to play with him in there. Then we pick people who can come in for him.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Comrade 86 in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    I actually had to check his age as he seems to have been around forever. He's 30 so I think you're probably right that the next tourny may be his last at his current level. We have been very dependent on his goals in recent years and I don't see any other out and out 9 with his quality. That said, the emergence of players like Palmer, Mainoo, Branthwaite and co offers hope that there may yet be an as yet unnoticed bolter.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to DarkFruitsRam7 in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    What a start to this tournament. International tournament football is the absolute best. Feels like a throwback to the good old days.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to EtoileSportiveDeDerby in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    Last summer we were told half of Albania were illegally crossing the channel on dinghies, it looks like the other half is in Dortmund
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    ariotofmyown reacted to DarkFruitsRam7 in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
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    ariotofmyown reacted to DarkFruitsRam7 in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    Every time Burton gets a mention during England games in reference to St George’s park

     
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    ariotofmyown got a reaction from Ram-Alf in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    Who else starts chanting "Derby" when ITV reads the postcode out for their competition?
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Srg in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    2 fun games so far. Can’t wait for Spain to bore me to tears next. 
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    ariotofmyown reacted to CWC1983 in UEFA Euro 2024 Thread   
    Not our finest hour (or 90 mins).......
    Oh well, there's a chance to redeem themselves on Wednesday. 
    Dropping Gilmour was criminal, and it shows the drop off in quality from Hickey to Patterson to Ralston. The Germans ran him ragged. 
    On the upside, I managed to get 2 tickets for the Swiss game last night, so at least I get to see at least 1 game live. 
    Defeats like last night make the victories all the sweeter.
    Onwards and upwards. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Carl Sagan in Twitter Rebrand to 𝕏   
    The removal of public likes is to prevent the offense archaeologists destroying lives and livelihoods by going through accounts so they can get people cancelled for liking something that's not progressive. As has been said, Insta did this years ago. It's a shame it has to be done, but will lead to a healthier, more honest exchange in the town square.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Foreveram in Karamoko Dembele   
    I think he played well last season from mammary.
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    ariotofmyown got a reaction from Stive Pesley in Twitter Rebrand to 𝕏   
    You've been told about this before, please leave out the politics discussion.
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    ariotofmyown got a reaction from Comrade 86 in Twitter Rebrand to 𝕏   
    You don't know they are about cricket because you don't understand cricket. Or the language they are written in. That final image of the cat dressed in both umpire attire with the above spin doctor joke is simply brilliant. This wouldn't have been possible on the old twitter, where you would have only seen so-called "news" by those msm "journalists". Viva la free speech.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to B4’s Sister in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    I had three months sick leave for stress in 2019. I was being treated appallingly by a new boss at work. I did my job with nothing but praise for eight years and suddenly I couldn’t do anything right. Counselling didn’t help at the time. I left my job without another job to go to. The experience left me with really bad anxiety. I had another breakdown in October 2022 from the same issues. My doctor was great and I started medication and was referred for CBT. It wasn’t effective enough, so I went on to trauma counselling, which was great. It really helped and I turned a corner in June last year. Without this help I don’t know how I would have got through Daniel’s death. My mental health is up and down at the moment but I think I just need time. I only took 10 workings days bereavement leave including the funeral which wasn’t enough but after my previous work experience, I didn’t want to ask for more time. My boss was very kind and supportive and work sent me flowers. Colleagues have been very supportive too. People with genuine mental health problems need to be supported and not be treated as a government statistic. 
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Archied in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    You’re not really getting what I’m saying , if we are getting it so much more right then why have and are suicide rates going through the roof ? Yes there’s there’s terrible stuff / wrongs in the past but that does not mean that’s there’s any less wrongs now even if they are less obvious, 
    how many people are thrown into a community they can’t cope with who need good care and even residential care , left to bounce between police cells and accident and emergency being handled by people not trained to help who often through pressure are making things worse to the point of people harming themselves and others ,
    im very open about my experience of losing a child to suicide and time spent working as a counsellor in prisons simply because I think it’s the right way to go not because I in some daft way think it means I have all the answers or my opinion has anymore value than anybody else s , it just means I don’t throw stuff out Willy nilly without a care ,
    one of the worst things about my time in the prison area was that when you had success with people there was duck all follow up help after our 12 weeks and they were back in the day to day prison routine having opened up and started to dismantle the self destructive shield they had built to survive the poo they had most times been through ,,, really troubled me as to whether we we were actually doing more harm than good 🤷🏻‍♂️
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Gee SCREAMER !! in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    I've had CBT and it did diddly.  They also put me on a list for 6 months to start it and changed the person doing it halfway who scoffed at what the person did before.  As it didn't work  I then spent another 6 months trying to find an alternative they couldn't offer as the service is CBT obsessed.  After another assessment they decided EMDR to deal with a past traumatic event may help .  I emphasise this wasn't offered but should be available so I pushed for it.  The therapist new nothing about my past history, which after copious notes were taken was very demoralising. After 4 very intensive sessions which aren't that pleasant, I was advised the therapist was moving to another trust so they suspended it and I waited 4 weeks to get another assessor. Guess what, this new therapist wasn't happy with what the previous one had done and wanted too start again.  At this point I gave up and was advised they'd keep me on file but the first point of call would be CBT.   
    Glad it worked for you but if like me it doesn't, neither the therapist to try something different or listening to what you saying is very high on the agenda.  I imagine it's worse now they've merged PCT therapy regionally.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to Mostyn6 in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    I think it's dangerous. The link between men (particularly in my age range) committing suicide and their feelings of not wanting to burden/bother anyone is quite large. When I was in my bad place, the feeling of solitude and nobody understanding was quite overwhelming. This forum helped me get away from those feelings and took away my shame and embarrassment for the feelings I had. This, in a long line of out of touch politicians, has been quite stupid here but I hope we have come too far and will continue to.
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    ariotofmyown reacted to G STAR RAM in Your Top 3 Favourite Derby players ever   
    and the subs for the B team
    Beck
    Blatsis
    Bohinen
    Bragstad
     
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