Mucker1884

Ooh look... more pages than the week old Bolton matchday thread already.  I wonder how we got on today.  Seems awfully popular!
 
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Ooh look... more pages than the week old Bolton matchday thread already.  I wonder how we got on today.  Seems awfully popular!
 
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What were those dates again?

For clarity purposes, is that nice, or nonce?
 
 

Could be a long night...

So good I framed them...

Just arrived, in the Walter Tull pub for pre match beverage.

Just arrived in Northampton, parked up and off to the pub , good luck to the lads and a safe trip to all travelling Rams fans COYR

Could be a long night...

I had three months sick leave for stress in 2019. I was being treated appallingly by a new boss at work. I did my job with nothing but praise for eight years and suddenly I couldn’t do anything right. Counselling didn’t help at the time. I left my job without another job to go to. The experience left me with really bad anxiety. I had another breakdown in October 2022 from the same issues. My doctor was great and I started medication and was referred for CBT. It wasn’t effective enough, so I went on to trauma counselling, which was great. It really helped and I turned a corner in June last year. Without this help I don’t know how I would have got through Daniel’s death. My mental health is up and down at the moment but I think I just need time. I only took 10 workings days bereavement leave including the funeral which wasn’t enough but after my previous work experience, I didn’t want to ask for more time. My boss was very kind and supportive and work sent me flowers. Colleagues have been very supportive too. People with genuine mental health problems need to be supported and not be treated as a government statistic. 

We’re on our wayyyyy, we’re on our way…

"Bride Jilted for Northampton Away! Exclusive inside story on the Derby fan who spoke now to say I'm Derby til I die (which is probably about 5 minutes after he gets home)

Could be a long night...

Tradition dictates that you save it for the bridal suite, yer bloody perv!  😁
 
 
 
*Enough smut from me now... Have a great day... and a wonderful life together.  🥂 

Could be a long night...

Tradition dictates that you save it for the bridal suite, yer bloody perv!  😁
 
 
 
*Enough smut from me now... Have a great day... and a wonderful life together.  🥂 

My fiancée has a crush on Mendez-Laing. I can’t take any chances. They definitely locked eyes at Exeter away.

Could be a long night...

A good test to see whether the manager and the players read the forum…
Will they do a throwing confetti celebration if we score a goal?
My wedding starts at kick off. 😆

My son Edward was mascot that day. Living in West Bridgford & surrounded by Red Dogs at school, Derby County had the foresight to offer the job to Edward…He fully milked the bragging rights accordingly at school on the Monday morning. 😉

My overriding memory of the day is leaving the ground disappointed at our expected goals (xg) level because as we all know, that’s what really matters. 

My youngest was 2 days old, I missed the match because of that. But, he was sat with me in his Derby County onesie (for at least some of it) watching it on TV. The first game he "saw" was that one. Will forever remember it for so many reasons, that, and the fact that it signified the implosion of Notts and the coming of Derby. Sigh. Good times.

That’s kind of what I mean mucker, some need time and rest , some need gentle pushing into a position of being active filling time and space , some( though not as many as are palmed off ) need medication ,some need a mix of all 3 and rather than provide the services needed there’s a push to one size fits all,
some really do need help understanding that what they are experiencing is not necessarily mental health problems in the full sense but rather life’s difficulties ( no less devastating to some ) and need to be helped to understand this and helped with coping mechanisms ,
Time with a good counsellor coupled with our new found openness in a timely manner , available to all at no cost or massive waiting list would go a long long way to getting positive results 

Agreed - to say "we haven't in any way moved forward" is plainly daft. 50 years ago we'd be attaching electrodes to people's heads and zapping them stupid. 100 years ago we'd be doing lobotomies
I've had CBT and it really helped me