RLACML Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 I think a picture would be helpful for all of us. We can provide constructive feedback whether to push on or let go. We are all mates on here after all. Go on then, you've twisted my arm. "http://i57.tinypic.com/24mygw4" alt="24mygw4"> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Posh Ram Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 Don't give up on her mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duracell Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 Have to hold my hands up and say I'm a sucker for a nose piercing. Keep playing the long game RLACML. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alph Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 Scottish and smiling at the same time? Is this new? Can't you off the boyfriend? Sneaky like. Bungee jump and cut the line? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i-Ram Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 Lovely school uniform. Keep trying mate, and I have my fingers crossed for you, but hanging around at the school gates is really not cool. Told you I would be constructive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RLACML Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 To answer all the concerns and queries. She's English I'm also a sucker for nose piercings I would happily whack the boyfriend but unfortunately that would make me public enemy number one. If someone else was willing to do it, they might be handsomely rewarded. She's exactly two weeks older than me. Fate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrivateDerby Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 Dry your eyes mate. I will never put myself in a position where I'm tied to one lady again. The hurt lads experience at the hands of them is not worth the sex they bought. I've seen mates left destroyed after having their own children ripped away and used against them. In my 30s now, I look back and wonder why I left the field so early. Back in the game now and it's good fun just bumping into girls not after anything serious, surprising how many there are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duracell Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 To answer all the concerns and queries. She's English I'm also a sucker for nose piercings I would happily whack the boyfriend but unfortunately that would make me public enemy number one. If someone else was willing to do it, they might be handsomely rewarded. She's exactly two weeks older than me. Fate What's the lad like? There's this girl who I'm friends with who's really hot and a friend of mine had been a keen admirer for some time. Her boyfriend was goody two shoes and the sun shone out of his arse, but I told my mate not to worry - the boyfriend was gunning for SU president and he'll be found out as a psychopath in the end, and the girl was nothing more than a political tool to him. A few months, an election win and a messy break-up later, and what do you know? Duracell was proved right. Still means jack **** though, she's not given my mate a second glance, but the first bit of the story could be relevant to you. If not then I'm sure someone else will offer you a meaningless anecdote in a vein attempt to help you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Posh Ram Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 Have you made your feelings known RLACML? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RLACML Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 What's the lad like? There's this girl who I'm friends with who's really hot and a friend of mine had been a keen admirer for some time. Her boyfriend was goody two shoes and the sun shone out of his arse, but I told my mate not to worry - the boyfriend was gunning for SU president and he'll be found out as a psychopath in the end, and the girl was nothing more than a political tool to him. A few months, an election win and a messy break-up later, and what do you know? Duracell was proved right. Still means jack **** though, she's not given my mate a second glance, but the first bit of the story could be relevant to you. If not then I'm sure someone else will offer you a meaningless anecdote in a vein attempt to help you. He's a complete sausage. If it was just me that thought that, then you could probably attribute it to jealously but very few people like him. I've even had stories from my best friends where they are being told about this absolute gimp in law and it turns out to be him. My criticism could go far more personal but that's probably not a great idea. It just stuns me that she can't see it. The problem is that they seem very stable, it's been over 4 years now. I'm not ready to give up though so I'm just concentrating on my last year of studies and see where we are then. This has turned into my own personal agony aunt page so I think someone else better post up their 'gal'. Shed a few tears, it's good for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RLACML Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 Have you made your feelings known RLACML? I told her on one of the last nights at Uni. If the two responses, on a scale of 1-10, are 'I like you as a friend' and 'I love you too'. I'd say it was probably a 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
May Contain Nuts Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 This has turned into my own personal agony aunt page so I think someone else better post up their 'gal'. Shed a few tears, it's good for you. I might post something later about my romantic misfortune. No tears though, more cynical resignation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pearl Ram Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 He might be good at the long dickie business and that's clouding her judgement at the moment. If he's as much of an eejit as you say, as sure as eggs is eggs she'll come to her senses. When that happens, just let her know you're there for her for support and ting. Slowly slowly catchee monkey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Posh Ram Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 I told her on one of the last nights at Uni. If the two responses, on a scale of 1-10, are 'I like you as a friend' and 'I love you too'. I'd say it was probably a 3 Hmm. Well it's better that she knows how you feel. Personally I'm in a situation where I really like the girl but have never let my feelings be known and am now probably in the "friend zone" forever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrivateDerby Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 At least you can keep her in the **** bank without knowing whether she would or she wouldn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cisse Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 I told her on one of the last nights at Uni. If the two responses, on a scale of 1-10, are 'I like you as a friend' and 'I love you too'. I'd say it was probably a 3 You are both just kids so keep stalking her. You'll get your chance either on this decade or the next. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashz09 Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 Just pretend your gay. She will then ask you to be a close friend wanting you to help her choose some knickers and bras. When she bends over just 'Accidently' slip it in! I've been watching to many films I think! . Being serious She's pretty but move on try make her jealous if it doesn't work and she's not bothered then she'll be happy for you.. Therefore she may not of liked you that way in the 1st place . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Kevin Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 Great record ,Jimmy Ruffin I believe .Sound track to my younger mod days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RLACML Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 Always a tricky situation when you're friends with the girl that you want. Never knowing whether to stay close to her and wait but risk the friend zone. I went with the risky 'I don't want to be friends' tactic. Dm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RLACML Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 Beinf serious She's pretty but move on try make her jealous if it doesn't work and she's not bothered then she'll be happy for you.. Therefore she may not of liked you that way in the 1st place This is the general plan but the problem is that I compare any girl to her and that just ruins the whole thing. I'm really screwed up by it all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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