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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to Day in Supporters Charter Group Apology   
    You lot are something else. ??
    Appreciate all the messages, especially the one that said I’m young. Whilst I hear all the you have nothing to apologise for messages, I feel I did and couldn’t just swan back in here like nothing had happened.
    Now I have addressed it and the football is back, hopefully we can all draw a line under this episode and move on.
    This is a time when we all need to be together right now.
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to ariotofmyown in Supporters Charter Group Apology   
    I'm glad you are back, were far more concerned with how you were doing rather than reading any meeting notes.
    You've let no one down, it's been a tough and emotional undertaking, as well as ever-changing. Thanks for all your hard work, and all the mods hard work too.
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to Day in Supporters Charter Group Apology   
    I am still hoping to get my own write up out there as promised, but at this stage do not want to put a time frame on it. 
    Rams Trust have published a statement and Jim Wheeler has spoken on Radio Derby on the meeting. That’s all out there now for those that are interested.
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to Day in Supporters Charter Group Apology   
    I just want to apologise for the delay, my absence, my handling of the situation and try to explain what has happened.
    The meeting on Wednesday was scheduled to end at 8.45pm, my last train home was 9.33pm, I slipped out just after 9pm as I didn’t have clothes, medication, toiletries with me as I wasn’t planning on staying overnight.
    When the meeting had finished, an agreement was made where one statement would be written and signed off by all groups, this is the first time anything like this had been agreed, I was under the impression we would be allowed to report back as normal.
    Being completely unaware of this, whilst waiting for my train I saw a conversation take place on my Twitter timeline discussing the meeting minutes, when would they be out.
    I replied, that the meeting minutes were not taken and we would be sharing the information ourselves, which as I say I was under the impression would be allowed, why else attend? I thought I was being helpful.
    Now I can see on reflection I was clearly naive in not appreciating the number of fans waiting online for what was said at the meeting, would see the tweet whilst was part of a conversation, which was also public and could be seen and shared by others. The tweet blew up online having been retweeted, I’m not exaggerating when I say maybe hundred or more replies, some abusive to the point where I had to turn notifications off as my phone was freezing with as I came back into an area with phone signal.
    On the forum I did pre warn members not to expect anything Wednesday evening, the minutes can sometimes take a few days to a couple of weeks before being released. I was going with the intention of asking the club if the minutes could be released within 24 hours or that we could release the information immediately. Obviously once we was told the minutes would not be taken all that went out the window and believed we was free to report back immediately, and that was the plan.
    Again, I was clearly naive to the fact fans on Twitter would not be aware of this, so when I wasn’t replying to all the tweets with thumbs up or down if it’s good news, or are we going to have a club next week the levels of abuse increased, despite my plea for being understanding I wasn’t in the position to do so.
    With my write up, I had no intention of adding any personal opinion, it would be just what was said and allow you all to read and take it as you will.
    As you will be well aware, all fans see things differently and I didn’t want to raise any expectations or disappoint fans, then receive more abuse as it wasn’t what they were expecting.
    I put myself in this situation through naivety, but I don’t accept that the abuse was warranted at all, I have removed the twitter account from my devices and will no longer be active on that account, opting now for a private account as I have no interest in twitter fame.
    I would seriously urge anyone that did send me abusive tweets to have a think how they talk to people online and their demands, if this is this what celebrities have to deal with on a daily basis, I’m glad I’m just a nobody!
    Punjabi Rams, who I honestly can’t thank enough stepped in and put some tweets out from their account to give some information in my defence. You guys are awesome, didn’t need to do that but again, I honestly can’t thank you enough. Quick plug www.punjabirams.co.uk, @PunjabiRams on Twitter, go give them a follow if you are on there.
    On the train home I started to do the write up on my notes app, realising I need to get this out asap, first thing to defuse the situation I felt I had created.
    Thursday morning, as I was consulting my notes and finishing off the write up, there was a few things I wanted to fact check with the club were totally accurate, there has been times where things have been misheard in the past (Boycie ahem) and needed correcting, I didn’t want this to happen. We’re human, mistakes can happen, I believed I had time to ensure there were none.
    I decided, and this was not requested by the club but to send my write up to them, asking if they could read it over and everything I had written was totally accurate, leaving ??? <—— fact checks where I was a little cautious over.
    They agreed and I again naively yet again assumed that this would be back with me in a few hours……despite the previous night listening to just how busy they have been.
    Now whilst I understand and totally agree that this meeting is important, the club staff are as I’m sure you can imagine really busy, now I need to really stress here that this is in no way the fault of the club, this is on me 100%.
    No tweet, no forum post, none of this situation exists.
    Meanwhile The Supporters Charter Group are scratching their heads as to why I’ve gone it alone, I can only apologise to them also, as I say I was under the impression that we would all be reporting back ourselves which I have explained privately with them.
    A single statement isn’t something I would have been personally happy with but that is what was agreed in my absence.
    I haven’t felt comfortable coming back on the forum if I'm honest, ignoring the fact I insinuated what was said at the meeting would be out Thursday on the forum, I feel like I have let you all down and for that I’m sorry.
    Just to add, this apology wasn’t asked for, it's something I feel is owed to you all.
    Should someone have gone that could have stayed all evening? Ideally yes, although Paul (Boycie) was unavailable to attend. Since the formation of 2017 it has only been either myself or Paul that has attended, I didn’t feel it would be right to send someone new which in hindsight was the correct call, they may have also not been able to attend until the end of what I’m led to believe turned out to be almost a 4 hour long meeting, putting themselves unwittingly into a similar situation I have.
    I know you are all frustrated, the accusations of attention seeking, sitting on information, teasing, trying to get more views, followers etc. and even censorship on the forum are simply not true, they come from people that do not know me or how the forum is run at all, which is disappointing hearing it said by members that have been on the forum for a number of years now.
    Finally, I do want to say thank you to those who have sent supportive texts, PM’s, DM’s, tweets you name it over the last few days, despite asking to be given time, it’s you who I put the hours in for, I will learn from this and work on handling things better in the future.
    I would also like to thank the moderators who have been trying their best to keep on top of the situation, without them this forum would have crashed and burned over the last few days so please be respectful to them, even if at times you do not agree with decisions they have made. 
    David
     
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to Eddie in v Peterborough (A) - Predictions   
    Peterborough 1 Derby 3
    Lawrence
    Now where are my tablets?
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to Day in v Peterborough (A) Match Day Thread   
    Nice save there, don't think anyone will notice ?
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to DarkFruitsRam7 in v Peterborough (A) Match Day Thread   
    I believe this will be my first Championship away day since Boxing Day 2019. Can't bloody wait.
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to ollycutts1982 in v Peterborough (A) Match Day Thread   
    Derby v Peterborough Utd
    Saturday 14th August
    12:30 kick off
    Live on Sky (am I allowed to put that?)
    First away game of the season so let’s hope for a positive result. We’ve added Ravel so a little more depth to the squad. 
     
    Much the same team as Huddersfield with the only real debate as to whether Morrison will start. For me I’d start him instead of Watson. It’s between him and Joz and I just feel experience is needed. Sibbo didn’t really follow up his cameo on Saturday with a performance last night so his impact will be from the bench for me. 
     
    I don’t know why but I feel we can build on the decent start with another result here. 
     
    COYR
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    LouiseDCFC23 got a reaction from hales300k in Come on mel sort out roadriders I am begging you   
    For anyone else that is interested there are more supporters groups as well as alfreton (although they are the only one that picks up at Pride Park) that run buses. There is a page on twitter thats run DCFCSC that can help and a page on dcfc with contact information http://www.ramsfans.co.uk/Branches.htm
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    LouiseDCFC23 got a reaction from angieram in Come on mel sort out roadriders I am begging you   
    For anyone else that is interested there are more supporters groups as well as alfreton (although they are the only one that picks up at Pride Park) that run buses. There is a page on twitter thats run DCFCSC that can help and a page on dcfc with contact information http://www.ramsfans.co.uk/Branches.htm
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    LouiseDCFC23 got a reaction from i-Ram in Come on mel sort out roadriders I am begging you   
    For anyone else that is interested there are more supporters groups as well as alfreton (although they are the only one that picks up at Pride Park) that run buses. There is a page on twitter thats run DCFCSC that can help and a page on dcfc with contact information http://www.ramsfans.co.uk/Branches.htm
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    LouiseDCFC23 got a reaction from Gritstone Ram in Come on mel sort out roadriders I am begging you   
    For anyone else that is interested there are more supporters groups as well as alfreton (although they are the only one that picks up at Pride Park) that run buses. There is a page on twitter thats run DCFCSC that can help and a page on dcfc with contact information http://www.ramsfans.co.uk/Branches.htm
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to Day in The latest from the club via Chris Coles   
    Let me try this again, I was forwarded your post and just online replying to say thanks, and I appreciate the concern. Posted and the topic was merged and my post lost as I submitted it. Cheers mods.
    I have an apology and what exactly has happened post which will follow the report from the meeting, I don't not can't want to go into detail now. 
    What I would say is, this is not the clubs fault, anyone using it as a stick to beat the club with are doing so without the full facts, which is unfair and not helping myself personally as I try to fix the situation and get the information out to you.
    I, David, has handled the situation poorly, been naive and been busy working my hardest to get back to you all with what you want.I would like to think that over the years we have built up some mutual respect, if you don't want to believe me that's fine, but please just stop until you have read what I put out.
    You must also all understand that the club staff are ridiculously busy right now working long hours on other important issues, whilst I feel somewhat in limbo, I'm more happy that we have an extra 2 defenders in the squad than missing out as they need to read through my emails.
    As for tomorrow, I am excited more than you will ever know, football is back, Derby are back, fans in the stadium, perfect.
    I'm just gutted I can't be there, but I'm doing the next best thing, taking a flight out of here so I can watch on RamsTV with a. few beers that are chilling in the fridge.
    Those that are going, regardless of your thoughts on the ownership, club, put all that to one side and get behind the team, we have a young team that doesn't deserve to play under a negative atmosphere. 
    Drop any protests, Mel chants, anti EFL or anti and sarcastic Rooney chants, focus on positive support for the team, this is when they need us the most, the atmosphere is all on us nobody else, if we crush those lads with booing and all that baalocks, we will have to shoulder some of the responsibility.
    I'm sorry for the lack of communication, I just didn't have anything to add and felt it would be best to stay offline. But please, regardless of what you think of me, the club, just read the above and take it from a fan that loves this club and wouldn't be saying any of this if I didn't mean it.
    ?
     
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to Tamworthram in The latest from the club via Chris Coles   
    Cheers buddy. Next few days will be critical.
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to angieram in The latest from the club via Chris Coles   
    You are joking, right? Who wants vanilla when you can have mint chocolate chip?
    Or at the moment, tutti frutti? 
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to Tamworthram in The latest from the club via Chris Coles   
    In terms of the delay, I’d dn’t David say in his last post that it wasn’t the clubs fault?
    I know David must be wrestling with some challenges that are none of our business. It’s a shame we can’t convince him that we’re all friends (well, most of us) despite the occasional falling outs and the vast majority of us just want to see what he is able to report back before the judging the club on a) our current position and b) how they’ve handled this communication exercise. We shouldn’t be be judging David in any way. If the details he is able to provide amount to sweet FA (as looks like it may the case judging by that article from the Rams Trust) well it’s none David’s fault.
    If you read this David. Take care.
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to Day in Supporters Charter Meeting Questions   
    Quick update: I have just left the meeting which is still ongoing otherwise I would miss the last train.
    A decision was made not to release minutes for this meeting in the end, but I am free to get a write up out to you all as soon as I can. 
    I do not have a laptop with me and would prefer to wait until tomorrow once I’m home and can go through all the notes.
    I will aim to have it ready to post on the forum tomorrow.
    Please do not bombard me with questions across the forum by mentioning me, PM, DM or text if you have my number.
    I don’t want to be putting bits and pieces out there all over the place.
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    LouiseDCFC23 reacted to Ramslad1992 in Who will be our first signing?   
    I mean we aren’t just not signing players because we don’t want to are we? 
     
    I've learned I have far more important things to worry about than ‘are we going to sign x,y or z’ it’s completely out of our control and when (or if) we sign people we will… 
    tske the dog for a walk, read your kids a bedtime story or go down the pub for a pint. 
     
    que Sara, sara 
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    LouiseDCFC23 got a reaction from ariotofmyown in Supporters Charter Meeting Questions   
    Is there any future plans to move away from having betting advertising? ..... Due to increase in people getting in debt through betting and effect on metal health and increased suicides from betting debt. Understand means needs other forms of advertising which i'm sure isn't exactly free flowing at moment but be nice to acknowledge the issue/ have a plan to move away from it in future.
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    LouiseDCFC23 got a reaction from Jram in Supporters Charter Meeting Questions   
    Is there any future plans to move away from having betting advertising? ..... Due to increase in people getting in debt through betting and effect on metal health and increased suicides from betting debt. Understand means needs other forms of advertising which i'm sure isn't exactly free flowing at moment but be nice to acknowledge the issue/ have a plan to move away from it in future.
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    LouiseDCFC23 got a reaction from Woodypecker in Supporters Charter Meeting Questions   
    Is there any future plans to move away from having betting advertising? ..... Due to increase in people getting in debt through betting and effect on metal health and increased suicides from betting debt. Understand means needs other forms of advertising which i'm sure isn't exactly free flowing at moment but be nice to acknowledge the issue/ have a plan to move away from it in future.
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    LouiseDCFC23 got a reaction from GboroRam in Supporters Charter Meeting Questions   
    Is there any future plans to move away from having betting advertising? ..... Due to increase in people getting in debt through betting and effect on metal health and increased suicides from betting debt. Understand means needs other forms of advertising which i'm sure isn't exactly free flowing at moment but be nice to acknowledge the issue/ have a plan to move away from it in future.
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    LouiseDCFC23 got a reaction from JMC in Supporters Charter Meeting Questions   
    Is there any future plans to move away from having betting advertising? ..... Due to increase in people getting in debt through betting and effect on metal health and increased suicides from betting debt. Understand means needs other forms of advertising which i'm sure isn't exactly free flowing at moment but be nice to acknowledge the issue/ have a plan to move away from it in future.
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    LouiseDCFC23 got a reaction from Ken Tram in Supporters Charter Meeting Questions   
    Is there any future plans to move away from having betting advertising? ..... Due to increase in people getting in debt through betting and effect on metal health and increased suicides from betting debt. Understand means needs other forms of advertising which i'm sure isn't exactly free flowing at moment but be nice to acknowledge the issue/ have a plan to move away from it in future.
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    LouiseDCFC23 got a reaction from Pearl Ram in Supporters Charter Meeting Questions   
    Is there any future plans to move away from having betting advertising? ..... Due to increase in people getting in debt through betting and effect on metal health and increased suicides from betting debt. Understand means needs other forms of advertising which i'm sure isn't exactly free flowing at moment but be nice to acknowledge the issue/ have a plan to move away from it in future.
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