MaltRam

Thank you Needlesh, and I'm sorry for your loss.
I had a breakdown yesterday, which I've not done in a while, because I feel I trust people who don't give anything back. Maybe that's me being a honest person. You're right, people and employers are shitbags. They never give me anything in return, yet I don't understand why I feel so hurt by it. Is it caring for the job too much?  

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

My previous incarnation as Needles quit when I was having an especially hard time. I needed it.
I could just have logged out and left it alone for a few months, but that didn't feel right at the time.
All I say to anyone leaving or thinking about it, for whatever reason, is don't be afraid to come back.
At the end of the day, it's about football, and Derby County, and it's supposed to be fun, despite how seriously we all take it sometimes.
 

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

My previous incarnation as Needles quit when I was having an especially hard time. I needed it.
I could just have logged out and left it alone for a few months, but that didn't feel right at the time.
All I say to anyone leaving or thinking about it, for whatever reason, is don't be afraid to come back.
At the end of the day, it's about football, and Derby County, and it's supposed to be fun, despite how seriously we all take it sometimes.
 

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

My previous incarnation as Needles quit when I was having an especially hard time. I needed it.
I could just have logged out and left it alone for a few months, but that didn't feel right at the time.
All I say to anyone leaving or thinking about it, for whatever reason, is don't be afraid to come back.
At the end of the day, it's about football, and Derby County, and it's supposed to be fun, despite how seriously we all take it sometimes.
 

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

My previous incarnation as Needles quit when I was having an especially hard time. I needed it.
I could just have logged out and left it alone for a few months, but that didn't feel right at the time.
All I say to anyone leaving or thinking about it, for whatever reason, is don't be afraid to come back.
At the end of the day, it's about football, and Derby County, and it's supposed to be fun, despite how seriously we all take it sometimes.
 

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

I don't think I can say this without sounding a dick, but I'm going to hope you get it anyway...
I'm comfortably well off, but my missus passed away. I'd reverse those things in a heartbeat.
Life deals harsh cards sometimes; people and employers can be shitbags. You'll get through being skint, so long as you stick together for each other...and then you won't be skint, and you'll be stronger for the shared effort. Good luck SSD.

Reading the last couple of pages has been sad. Don't know what to say to comfort anyone but it'd be nice if @Paul71 and @reverendo de duivel didn't give up the forum.
Take a step back, sure. Be selective with who you talk to on here
But there's far more bullshittery on other social media and in the real world than on here. The names and faces are anonymous but rather than hide the person it just allows people to be themselves more. 
Stick around. You make this place better for others and it would be nice to not know whatever happened to you.

Doggo update....he's fully mended.
First time at the beach yesterday, wonderful.

Doggo update....he's fully mended.
First time at the beach yesterday, wonderful.

Doggo update....he's fully mended.
First time at the beach yesterday, wonderful.

Doggo update....he's fully mended.
First time at the beach yesterday, wonderful.

Great words.
For the past week or so i have been waking up dreading the day for no particular reason, it is then a draining uphill battle to claw it back.
I just seem to be getting more an more frustrated with modern living. i.e. office jobs & money chasing, poor nutrition available & no trust in foods, news (Brexit, trump, death, money), the internet etc. Sure i could go on.
 

Doggo update....he's fully mended.
First time at the beach yesterday, wonderful.

feel free to expand if you want to sounds us out. It's all down to how comfortable you are with revealing it, but you're unknown to me, and I imagine a lot of the forum, so you're as good as anonymous. You might be surprised by a) how relieved you feel just putting stuff down into words and b) how many people understand it all, have been through similar and can give some good basic advice on coping.
Remember, you're not alone.