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I don't think you could have explained how it feels more articulately than you have done in your post.
That sentiment would help anyone reading it or hearing it.
It's not words that heal - it's empathy.

Next you'll be telling us everything is relative
i hate that, well hate is perhaps too strong a description but i dislike it alright, heftily, if i may say that in the way that everyone understands that word and when i say everything  i say everything is subjective and the only relative is the subjective relative so when you feel that your Lego assembly is not as an enjoyable experience as you had hoped for and then blame the designer and perhaps manufacturer for your project failure irritation, LesterRam complained that your gripe was insignificant compared to his major trauma of being run over by a large lady in a kiddie car, you affect the reader in a subjective manner, thereby excluding all other points of view and forcing him/her to choose sides in an altogether unrelated course o dual perception.
i object to that, in fact i object to this whole charade this thread has become, it's  nothing but a list of relative objections in a subjective cyber world environment and frankly it just doesn't quantify anymore.
To some it up, from my point of view, you both base your argument on a common fallacy. 
There is no baking soda in Gary Oldman's head, subjectively or relatively
 

It's Donald Trump holding a shot glass. 

If you don't like it, ignore it.
What effect is it to anyone else if they identify as non-binary? I view the world as fairly black and white, I'm a logic man instead of creative, but if their viewpoint puts them at ease with themselves, who would I be to deny them peace of mind?

Yeah, pictures or you're in a tent at Markeaton Park drinking Tesco's value lager. 

My mom and I at Stone Mountain Falls:
 
 

Popping a supremely lost crayfish back to the river.

We won.

Snow in April, falls, settles, melts away.

Ah, I see says the blind man. I knew there must be a logical explanation to it. Thanks for educating me. 

That used to confuse me too, but once it was explained to me, it's straight forward enough
If you have a cake but then eat it, you no longer have a cake
Supposed to mean those who want something for nothing

Bloody hell,that is posh.
You set me off with flags now.
Flags at festivals.....stop it,I can't see anything!

Nope.  Having a flag pole is considered posh by some in these parts.  We had one at our house and the same problem persisted.  One night at 2am i fastened that sucker down so tight it couldn't be loosened and then steadfastly refused to assist.  A few weeks later a big storm laid it sideways.  Oh happy day.

Don't live on a boat.

The like was for the randomness..I like the sound myself. 
But made me chuckle cos I hate the sound of whispering...especially that advert for those cheap hotel deals where she whispers....don't know why but it really bugs me.
 

You don't mess about AR, looks like you've got a half used up 5 liter jug of Militec on the middle shelf and judging by the looks of the dog flap you have either never washed your dog or you poured half the jug over him

Cleaning up/rearranging my garage. Erm...ways to go yet.

 

i find carrot juice horrid, but carrot cake is lovely.  Give it a try Wolfie, you might just like it

There is carrotts in it but she says I'm not allowed to discuss the cakes as they like to keep it secret......ffs!
 

i find carrot juice horrid, but carrot cake is lovely.  Give it a try Wolfie, you might just like it

Just relaxing in my downstairs den listening to some music with one of my dogs, Roxy.

The first glass of milk after time spent in a country with only uht sh1te.
 

Eider ducks doing their trademark Kenneth Williams impression.

When you have a moment of inspiration and write the most erudite, amazingly constructed, intelligent, hilarious post....and not one person likes or comments on it.
Later on still sulking you simply post 'Martin had a reasonable game ' and get 10 likes...WTF! 

Salt mine in Wieliczka, Krakow