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RiddingsRam

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  1. 4 hours ago, RamsPolls said:

    I give up.

    How can you say Blackman doesn't fit the bill but apparently a 17 year old who has scored 1 senior goal does?

    Behave.

    I actually think totally the different way on Blackman! I think he could fit into this system, either as a centre forward ( big physical with his back towards goal ) or on one of the wide forward areas.

  2. If we're going to stick to 4 3 3 , which it looks like under McClaren we will . It's paramount we sought the right back area out . So much of our attacking football goes through the fullbacks allowing the wide forwards to tuck in . Think how many times this season has Cyrus wasted a good opportunity in the final 3rd ? One for me would be Tandayi Darikwa at Burnley would be a good call. 

    Another player I think could add to this team is Sebastian Polter at QPR , sought of the Martin mould but slightly more mobile and better in the air ( got a stupid haircut though?) .

     

  3. 1 hour ago, ketteringram said:

    I developed the same thing about 20 years ago. It's never gone away. That's mainly due to me not doing anything about it, apart from a spell of counselling. I just ran away from the problem, and avoided the situations that caused the issue. I've largely done that ever since. 

    The problem came on unexpectedly (the first time). I remember it well. Totally out of the blue. These days, I'll go out for a meal with my Mrs, but no way, if it was more people. Haven't been in a pub for about 18 years. Don't do social occasions of any kind. 

    There's probably no point in me trying to do anything about it now. But if you are still young, and wanting to sort it out, I'm sure there are ways to do it. I just don't know what they are! Sorry to be not much help. But I certainly understand what you are talking about. 

     

    Sorry to hear about your issues , mine is on a much lesser scale , so couldn't begin to imagine how you have felt / feel . Thanks for the words of advice really appreciate the feedback . 

  4. 40 minutes ago, Mostyn6 said:

    I wonder if your sub-conscious state of mind has something to do with it. Maybe, like me, you've discovered you don't like drinking, or the feeling afterwards and your mind is playing the association game.

    If you're already feeling a bit better about the situation, then maybe your own self-awareness of the problems and more importantly, the reason, will be the key to overcoming it.

    Thanks mostyn . 

  5. 23 minutes ago, Mostyn6 said:

    that's a peculiar one, and I can only slightly relate if the company you are with are people you don't really understand, or don't perhaps like.

    I used to work with some racist thugs and was kind of obliged to socialise with them, and it took me a while to decide to stand my ground and distance myself from them in social situations and since then, I generally only mingle with people I feel truly comfortable with.

    Is this similar? I am not trivialising your anxiety but perhaps guessing if I understand.

    Thanks for the reply , immediately as I posted that , I felt a weight off my shoulders .

    Regarding the people I socialise with , now there OK! I used to socialise with people , who to be honest I didn't particularly like , and not genuinely selfish people . Now , I tend to only socialise with work colleagues  (and my family of course) . It might be a knock on effect from the people I used to socialise with.  

  6. Been thinking about posting on this thread for a while now ! But keep putting off from fear of what others may think ( stupid I know) . 

    Recently, say the past year or so . I've developed real bad anxiety before I go out. Mainly in social situations , where alcohol is involved . I know I'll be fine when I'm out (had a drink) but I get so worked up before , to the point were I'm literally in a daze for about a week before . 

    I'm going to the Huddersfield game( my first away game in a while) normally this would be fine , but I'm going with other people that are out of my immediate comfort zone and I'm getting myself into the same place mentally , were I don't want to be ! It's spoiling something that deep down I'm so excited about . Sorry for the long post and my whin9ng but really feel I needed to express my feelings some were especially were people may have been through the same thing .

  7. 21 minutes ago, reveldevil said:

    Unless you're taking Metronidazole, they're is no reason not to drink when taking antibiotics. 

    The advice not to to drink while taking them stems from their early use, when doctors would prescribe them for std's, and intercourse while drunk with the local whores would impede their usefulness. 

    * Obviously I'm not a doctor, I learnt this from QI, but if you can't trust Stephen Fry who can you trust?

    Ditto on the metronidazole, when I was 23 went on a stag due to Blackpool ! Massive night ! Me and the lads had been planning it for months ! I had sick coming out of my eyes by 9 o'clock . It was awful .

  8. 27 minutes ago, HenriDCFC said:

    I turn 18 next tuesday and my mate is taking me to get a tattoo, im thinking about get dcfc vertically done on my forearm, what do you think?

    I've got a Derby rams head on my wrist but it's incorporated into a full sleeve with all sorts of other things . Just make sure your 100 % before you go for it pal.  We're you going to get it done ? 

  9. 5 hours ago, rynny said:

    When I was taking my GCSE's it was during the 2002 World cup, saw almost every game (got to see all of England's) and I didn't revise at all, figured that either I knew it or I didn't. Didn't do too bad in my exams came out with B's and C's. But then I remember lots of pointless things.

    Maybe I'm not the best to take advice from...

    Ditto I left school in 2002 ! Ditto on the revision too ! :(

  10. 1 hour ago, ram1964 said:

    Get. A little more on a good run,but it puts a smile on my face and with 5 kids and 7 grandchildren 2 more due shortly,at the age of only 52 is something for me .when i cant get to my own telly can always watch it in the comfort of the car,lock the doors,tinted glass and tranquility.

    Can't fault you there mate ! 

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