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GboroRam

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  1. It's a terrible tragedy. Such a great talent, wasted. Could have been one of England's greats.
  2. How did the "best performing asset on the planet" do in 2022? Unfortunately until it's a bit more reliable, it's too risky for most people. And when it's less risky, those incredible gains will dry up, and it becomes a steady investment. And if it returned a steady 5% would you still be so committed? Or, it turns into the next dotcom bubble and everyone who's filled their boots will be lining up to throw themselves off the nearest tall building.
  3. A flange seems more than appropriate.
  4. It would have been really helpful if you'd reported that post instead of relying on someone reading your post. I will not tidy the thread up again, I'll just lock it.
  5. Anyone fancy posting something vaguely on topic? Reminder, the topic is "Twitter Rebrand to X".
  6. I will balance that - twitter spent an unsustainable amount of money to do that. Twitter was losing money. As long as they have stopped losing money then it's an understandable commercial decision.
  7. Exactly. Because the next person being made an example of could be me or you.
  8. I just heard Musk described as some people's "emotional support billionaire" and it seems strangely accurate.
  9. @Davidditch the ring, buy a blink and a usb stick. Pays for itself in a few months.
  10. I liked finding out that WW2 was Poland's fault. There Germany was, minding their own business, when Poland made them invade and kill 6 million people.
  11. Tucker Carlson is not a journalist. He was a presenter on an entertainment show. Remember always, Fox News told so many lies they had to self classify as entertainment instead of news.
  12. I've just been reading that China has devised a nuclear powered battery with almost zero radiation risk. Output is minimal and the life of the battery is 50 years. Interesting how this develops. First step will be a phone battery but who knows how it will go? We're still in the infancy of power development. Charging will be quicker, safer and battery capacity will be better. Right now it's workable but inconvenient. I'm sure filling stations were equally inconvenient in the dawn years of the petrol car.
  13. I see this thread approaching closing down. Can I recommend people ignore or block people instead of reacting?
  14. It's because you're a white English male, innit.
  15. GboroRam

    Wayne Rooney

    Is this the finish to his career in football? I reckon he will only be able to find work in the USA after this. Oh dear. How sad.
  16. There's a lot of truth in this. It may be that everything is going fine and there's no issues, but maybe you will hit problems. Maybe the local authority will respond to your needs, maybe you'll feel unsupported. If you feel like the children aren't getting the support they deserve, look into requesting an advocate for them. Someone independent who will only focus on their best interests. If the advocate is on your side, the local authority will be hard pressed to ignore them.
  17. I presume you're IFA not local authority. Local authority pay is half or less than agency pay. Unfortunately David, if you are with LA it doesn't go up.
  18. Of course it's a challenge, accepting children with trauma in their life. But I'm always optimistic about what we can offer, stability and love to children who need it. And one of the biggest factors that impacts a carer's ability to provide that is the pay. With our local authority paying £190 per week for a child under 12, it doesn't go far. IPicking up from David's comment about balancing fostering and work, it's possible to be a full time carer, but it relies on the income. f you have space for three, and you can balance the children in your care (and that's a definite challenge), I feel 3 gives you a reasonable chance of providing a fulfilling lifestyle for them. It's annoying when you look at the pay and think, I could stack shelves and not be any worse off, and I'd finish work at 5pm and have a life outside of caring for children sometimes. It might sound a bit materialistic but unfortunately it's a true concern, particularly with local authority rates of pay. It's a 24/7 occupation, whether you have one or three or more. We've fostered 15 or so children in nearly 5 years, I'd have to count them out to be sure. 2 went to family outside of the UK, 2 returned to mum, 2 went for adoption. Plenty of breakdowns for a variety of reasons, often because social services failed us and/or the children. 3 of them are with us still. I'm very much with you on the numbers - the lower the number, the more time that carer has invested in the children they've looked after. The higher the number, likely that's a respite carer who is a godsend for the long term carers who still need a break from the intensity of caring for children after trauma.
  19. We fostered two sisters. Oldest came to us aged about 6 months, and her sister was born a little after 6 months later. She came to us aged about 7 hours. Seeing them leave to their adoptive family broke my wife, and it was emotionally bad for me too. Babies are great, but I won't do it again. It was so painful. Those who can do it are a special breed, and I give you my full respect.
  20. The start is worse than the ongoing, to be fair. Form F takes quite a bit out of you, it's very personal and digs deep into your private life. Some of the personal stuff you've shared here with us will be explored in depth. The initial training is quite a lot squeezed into a short space of time. But, once the form F is done, you don't need to return to it. The training becomes a refresher course every three years. The contact invariably drops, as parents become unreliable, or face up to the reality of their situation. It gets better. If possible, consider making space for another bedroom, convert any big enough room and take an extra child. The income will help. Use any available ways to claim extra money - DLA if the child has any disabilities. Claim your mileage back. Speak to your SSW, ours will pay you back for one activity per week as long as you pay for one. Our boys do football and tae kwon do. You could do swimming, dance classes, rugby, Scouts - it gives them routines burns energy, and gives you a topic to write about in the interminable reports we're expected to write. Other than that, just keep going. Watch yourself and cover your back. The worst thing you can have happen is an allegation. You won't be told any details, and you can be put through hell. It's brutal at times. Would I recommend it? Honestly, no, not at the minute. But I'm not in a great place myself, but I'll keep going and things will pick up. I think you're in the toughest position right now, and in a few months you'll find it a lot easier.
  21. AI learns from the Internet. The Internet hates Musk. No surprises there. I think it's funnier that he bought twitter to fight against the woke mind virus, and his AI turns out to be woke.
  22. I think there's a lucrative future in appealing to bigotry. He may just be calculating that he can make money this way. If he's naturally a bit of a bigot anyway, it's even easier.
  23. I'm sure it's a very good article, but the dumpster fire that is xitter won't open for me.
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