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G-Ram

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    G-Ram got a reaction from Zag zig in Boxing Thread   
    Id love to see it, only thing is would Fury make him wait? Or not fight him at all after haye pulling out on Fury twice. Boots on the other foot now, back the Fury needed to fight haye more than haye needed to fight fury. Now its the other way round 
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    G-Ram got a reaction from JoetheRam in Boxing Thread   
    Im still convinced Fury is hustling everyone.
    He'll beat Klitschko again unless he turns up massively out of shape or he takes any unnecessay risks. Klitschko isn't going to get better at 40 and to beat him he'd need to take a bit of a risk and go for it but potentially leave himself open something he hasnt done in about 20 years.
    In my ooinion Deontay Wilder is rubbish but has a bang but thats it, technically terrible
    Styles beat other styles. I could see Fury losing to Joshua but beating Haye and Wilder. Joshua would beat Fury and Wilder but i think Haye would cause him the most trouble and if i was Joshua's team id try to leave Haye alone for a few years and let him age. 
    I think Haye will beat Briggs but a prime Briggs would have smoked Haye the man had Lewis rocked and holding on until he eventually got battered 
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    G-Ram got a reaction from Norman in Boxing Thread   
    Fair play to Amir Khan he always has a go, never ducks anyone, i still havent decided if he's very brave or very stupid, maybe a bit of both.
    Something more concerning was the scorecards. Two judges having Canelo up on points who was scoring the fight Stevie Wonder? In my opinion Kahn was well up at the time if the knock out.
     
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    G-Ram reacted to dcfcfan1 in Boxing Thread   
    I like briggs, he is so ******* funny. Lets go champ ! Glad he battled depression and is now in incredible shape at the age of 43. An inspiration tbh
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    G-Ram got a reaction from Cisse in Beer Thread   
    Quite liking Fruh kolsch had it in germany a while ago and cant stop ordering it from that beer hawk website
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    G-Ram reacted to KBB in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    I take beta blockers for anxiety as they really do help the physical manifestations that I experience with anxiety.
    also have CBT and councelling to help with the underlying issues. Been like this for almost 2 years. Coming out the other side now hopefully.
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    G-Ram got a reaction from LesterRam in Car you currently drive?   
    Whoever suggested a Dacia deserves an instant ban... I mean it get out 
    They may be decent reliable cars, i dont know but its just not cool ... Terrible, need to be thrownin the sea along with austin metro's, cinquecento's & them rovers that came out years ago that look like snide Jags 
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    G-Ram reacted to Day in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    After spending the majority of 6 years inside the house I'd like to think I know how you feel. 
    It's hard, really hard and most people reading this won't understand what goes off in your head, something so normal as going to the corner shop to pick up a paper scared me to death. 
    I won't ever claim to know the secret of overcoming it, for me it was almost forced through a relationship breakdown which at the time absolutely messed me up but looking back was also the best thing to have happened. I was too comfortable, no pressure to go outside so it was easy to put it off for another day. Tomorrow I'll try, tomorrow never comes.
    The person that helped me the most was my ex girlfriends mum, the motivation of trying to win her daughter back helped me go down to the doctors, after going through all the surgeries on the NHS website not one would actually come out to me which is just nuts.
    Other than finding out I had seriously low levels of vitamin D and my knee was knackered they were pretty much useless, tried to put me on anti depressants, the ones that were so strong they turn you into a zombie. After refusing them I was told to go away and find myself a councillor instead. 
    For me taking pills to zombify myself would only mask the issue, it was a course that I wouldn't be able to just stop either, I would have to lower the dose over several months if not years. Vitamin D supplements helped boost my energy, the main source of vitamin D is the sun, I had zero. It's also been linked to SAD and why people struggle so much in the winter. How true that is I don't know. Helped me.
    I won't knock the NHS as they do a lot of good but the support and treatment for mental health issues up here at least is shocking.
    Now this probably isn't the best advice but what worked for me was I called a mate, opened up, told him everything, he thought I was just loved up and bombed my mates off. He was pretty surprised by everything as I kept it well hidden. Anyway, we started going to the pub, at first sat outside, he would go in, bring the drinks out. I would have half, panic, go home. 
    Couple days later try again, having a mate that knew what was happening, was aware that I may suddenly start legging it home made it so much easier and he would come round unannounced some nights just to get me out. 
    22nd October 2013 I had my first pint inside the pub. 
    1st December 2013 me and my mate ended up in a gay bar down town, didn't realise until the cross dressing DJ got on the decks playing Take That.
    [Insert a year of realising how great it is to be outside, going to the pub, seeing mates, online dating]
    3rd January 2015 I went to my first Derby game again for years, Southport in the cup.
    Never happened overnight, there was fairy with a wand or magic pills. Small small steps, one day at a time and if you fail one day it's ok, don't hammer yourself for it just try again the next day. I'm still not fully cured so to speak, I still have a few moments where I need to walk away and compose myself. 
    Knowing what I missed out on helps drive me through each day, I'm not religious, I don't believe in after life or I will have a second chance. 6 years I've lost of my life and there won't be a day goes by that I'm not kicking myself for it. Easier said than done but don't waste another day, you will never get them back.
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