mozza Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 nick his alloys.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cisse Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Tell him that you know this crazy guy from Finland who is willing to collect debts. Say he might be tight with a Russian mob or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cisse Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 I mean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notts_ram Posted October 18, 2013 Author Share Posted October 18, 2013 lol is worth a try Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrivateDerby Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Play it cool, go round or ring him as normal and politely say you need it. When he says he will, just say you absolutely need it by..... When he doesn't, step it up and tell him that you want immediate payment or something of equal value. If it gets nasty, small claims court (could possibly threaten him with that earlier?) Usually works mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrivateDerby Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Know a few getting laid off at the moment, *****. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-JW- Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Just rob the cnut. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rynny Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 I know how you feel, and unfortunately I don't have an answer. My former best friend and flat mate owes just over £1000 from when he lived with me. I had the added problem that he started seeing my wife's sister and whenever I mentioned it to him, he started having a strop with her (even though it was before they got together and nothing to do woth her) and she would start moaning at my wife cause he was moaning about me asking for money, so the wife would moan at me. So I left until they split up. And the minute I found out they had I went calling for my cash and he said he was gonna pay me back but has since vanished. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-JW- Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 I get fidgety when someone owes me 70p from a couple of days ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alph Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 I know how you feel, and unfortunately I don't have an answer. My former best friend and flat mate owes just over £1000 from when he lived with me. I had the added problem that he started seeing my wife's sister and whenever I mentioned it to him, he started having a strop with her (even though it was before they got together and nothing to do woth her) and she would start moaning at my wife cause he was moaning about me asking for money, so the wife would moan at me. So I left until they split up. And the minute I found out they had I went calling for my cash and he said he was gonna pay me back but has since vanished. That's bad. That's confrontation time. I wouldn't get too worked up over £200 but I'd get my point across for 1k. Bang out of order that mate. He's not a friend. Get nasty. Piss taker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RamNut Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Just tell him that as you are unemployed you need him to pay the money now please........a cheque will do. End of. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alph Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 notts, Is there any chance he's living beyond his means? Car on credit? Stuff in instalments? Holiday perhaps a loan? Loads of people live beyond what they can afford and will be in debt forever just to look the part. Everyone is doing it so everyone does it to keep up. £200 is a lot when you're skint but its not when you're either well in debt or sitting quite comfy. I bet he's skint or in bigger debt/bigger problems and your cash feels like a lot? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rynny Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 That's bad. That's confrontation time. I wouldn't get too worked up over £200 but I'd get my point across for 1k. Bang out of order that mate. He's not a friend. Get nasty. Piss takerI think I would have made sure I got it back off him if he didn't start going out with my sister-in-law but cos he was with her so long and it caused arguments between the mrs and her sister I left. Fooker has disappeared and, tbh, I gave up hope of seeing any of that money the moment he got with the s-i-l. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alph Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 I think I would have made sure I got it back off him if he didn't start going out with my sister-in-law but cos he was with her so long and it caused arguments between the mrs and her sister I left. Fooker has disappeared and, tbh, I gave up hope of seeing any of that money the moment he got with the s-i-l. Really bad that is. Causing problems at home. Cnut Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsRam Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 I get fidgety when someone owes me 70p from a couple of days ago. You're just like my daughter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rynny Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Really bad that is. Causing problems at home. CnutI know. Ah well, he is gone, dunno if he is still in derby or not, but god help him when the mrs gets hold of him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsRam Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Notts - has he still got the car as well? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mozza Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 i used to have a 'mate' who would say , 'lend us a tenner 'til next week' , next week came and went.. maybe six weeks later he'd say ' lend us a tenner 'til next week' , i told him , give us the tenner you 'borrowed' six weeks ago , and i may consider lending you another one , he never asked again.. cost me a tenner , but , at least it stopped him asking ever again.. 'never a lender , or a borrower be' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrivateDerby Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 I get fidgety when someone owes me 70p from a couple of days ago. It's like when you have to buy a colleague a butty or a brew when they haven't got their wallet, then they don't offer you next time... I just plonk mine on the counter when they're getting theirs now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrivateDerby Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 My uncle used to be bad for it, somehow managed to empty my dads garage with his "eh can I borrow this?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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