ramexpat Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 I am getting married tomorrow , and wanted to ask a nuetral (my family say nothing changes) if Marriage actual changes anything in the relationship, i have been with my girl for 5 years now we have 2 kids but for some reason i am sh!tting myself about tomorrow, i probably need a therapist rather than the DCFC forum buy you guys never seem to fail , Cheers Steve Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kinza Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 Well, you can say goodbye to the B Js after tomorrow!!! Good luck though, Hope you have a long and happy one 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' /> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leeds Ram Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 well enjoy it 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':D' /> congratulations and enjoy the wedding night 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tongue' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':P' /> I am only 18 so i know nothing of marriage 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':D' /> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rampant Rob Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 All the best mate. Not sure I could get married on the day of a derby game though. I would be more worried about the score lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dangerous Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 ive been married for 13 years.its what you make it.she will never be the same as she was.you are now hers.basically its ****. enjoy your day though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pearl Ram Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 Kinza speaks the truth, well types it anyway, slipping a wedding ring on a lass's finger appears to be some kind of signal to her she can stop delivering the goods...it's bizarre. Anyway, I've been with my lass 28 years now and despite her lack of enthusiasm for dishing out the BJ's she's a good 'un, good luck for tomorrow, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mary Hindge Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 Good luck mate hope all goes well! I'm getting married in six months and how I see it is, it's kinda her day she has organised everything which I don't mind I've been with her seven years she deserves a little happiness!!!! But if the BJ's really do stop the whole thing is off!!! Where is dav and lady ram? :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ramexpat Posted December 9, 2011 Author Share Posted December 9, 2011 thankyou guys for your advice the BJ advice could have been usefull 5 minutes before i proposed , im Derby raised with no catholic background, the ceremony is obviously important for the missus (she is Polish) and it will be a catholic wedding ( i agreed for a catholic wedding if i could wear my rams badge) , i hope the meaning of have a Wife is no worse but better than having a girlfriend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ramexpat Posted December 9, 2011 Author Share Posted December 9, 2011 All the best mate. Not sure I could get married on the day of a derby game though. I would be more worried about the score lol. the missus has organised a flatscreen in the reception room to show a slideshow our pictures , i mentioned that that would happen after final score 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tongue' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':P' /> didnt go down to well (guess what kinza kinda predicted) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kinza Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 the missus has organised a flatscreen in the reception room to show a slideshow our pictures , i mentioned that that would happen after final score 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tongue' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':P' /> didnt go down to well (guess what kinza kinda predicted) Very best of luck mate.. i predict a win on the result tomorrow,!! BJs .....say goodbye!!!!! 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/mellow' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':mellow:' /> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsRam Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 Have a lovely day tomorrow and all the best for your future life, which infact, really doesn't change much in my opinion. You will praps feel a bit more 'together' if that makes sense. You've already made your commitment, you're just letting everyone else know. On the subject of BJ's, I'm keeping my mouth shut. 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wink' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=';)' /> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lyndsey Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 one part is an old wives tale 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wink' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=';)' /> Enjoy your day matey and wish you both lots of love and happiness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trigger Posted December 10, 2011 Share Posted December 10, 2011 enjoy the day m8! can you post some pics of when you slip your finger in her ring? 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' /> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyram Posted December 10, 2011 Share Posted December 10, 2011 Good luck mate hope all goes well! I'm getting married in six months and how I see it is, it's kinda her day she has organised everything which I don't mind I've been with her seven years she deserves a little happiness!!!! But if the BJ's really do stop the whole thing is off!!! Where is dav and lady ram? :-) I think that's brilliant Ramexpat! I wish you and your wife every happiness and may all your troubles be little ones! 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' /> I'm not an expert on marriage - my first one went out the window but I'm not going to go into that. What it did do is give me loads of experience in dealing with the not so happy times and my life with Dav is completely different. I can honestly say I've known him for 11 years and they've been the best years of my life. Yep, we row, there isn't a married couple who doesn't have their differences and we've had some belters (one row we had, we stopped halfway through and had a cuppa, then started up again) but the thing is, we know we will come out the other side and move forwards. If I could give you any tips - I'd say at times, you have to compromise. Marriage at times can be very hard work but stick at it. Always be prepared to listen and work things out together. I don't know why I'm telling you this, it sounds to me like you've got everything sorted - and with the kids aswell, there is no greater commitment than that! Lyndsey and Mrs are spot on, nowt much will change - and I disagree with the bedroom athletics going down the pan, it's what you make it 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wink' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=';)' /> and if anything, it does make you feel closer to each other. It's a kind of private feeling nobody else gets. I really hope you have an amazing day, come back and tell us all about it - well, some bits anyway 'http://www.dcfcfans.co.uk/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wink' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=';)' /> be happy xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rams71 Posted December 10, 2011 Share Posted December 10, 2011 congratulations and good luck mate i'm not commenting on anything else Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trekkie_ram Posted December 10, 2011 Share Posted December 10, 2011 Congrats, marriage just makes it harder and more expensive to break up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boycie Posted December 10, 2011 Share Posted December 10, 2011 Nothing changes if you live together already. Except how much her pay off will be. Get a prenup sorted asap! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-JW- Posted December 10, 2011 Share Posted December 10, 2011 Hope it all went well mate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trigger Posted December 10, 2011 Share Posted December 10, 2011 ive been married 23 years , she must be a 1 off (ohh err mrs) to put up with me . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hucknall Ram Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Should of done what I did, marry a forest fan and you will always be the superior one in the relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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