angieram Posted March 31, 2019 Share Posted March 31, 2019 It's very quiet on here today, given that we won 6 -1 yesterday (or maybe because we won 6 - 1 yesterday!) I assume a lot of people are out entertaining their mothers. I haven't got a mother and am not a mother so always find myself at a loose end on Mothers Day. I try to avoid Facebook; so far I've done the ironing and a bit of gardening and am now cooking lunch. I wonder how many are in the same situation and what they do with this day every year? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mucker1884 Posted March 31, 2019 Share Posted March 31, 2019 We usually take a trip to "see the mother-in-law"... fresh flowers, wipe her headstone down, pluck a few weeds, that sort of thing! My parents both died when I was still in my teens, and as they were cremated, there's nothing to visit, so there's no action there. Muckerette usually get a speedy visit from one or all of our kids, but daughter popped round last night instead (without the 3 grand daughters), one son was planning to visit this morning (with the grandson), but something unavoidable has cropped up, so he'll "try and get down in the week". (He's a good hour or so North). Our other son (no kids) has emigrated to Falmouth (and it seems he's forgotten what day it is... again!), but we did facetime him Thursday evening though. We most definitely avoid pub Sunday lunches on Mother's day, even though we've had one for about the last 6 consecutive Sundays! (Seeing as we've been out walking in the Derbyshire Countryside). So, in answer to your question... apart from the headstone cleaning... not a lot, I guess! :-) ...They've lost an hour too this year, of course! ;-( They should give them an extra Mother's Day as compensation... they all deserve it! Mums are the best people in the world! xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angieram Posted March 31, 2019 Author Share Posted March 31, 2019 14 minutes ago, Mucker1884 said: My parents both died when I was still in my teens, and as they were cremated, there's nothing to visit, so there's no action there. Snap! I wasn't able to have children (I wanted eleven, all boys!) so it's my least favourite day of the year. You'd think it would feel different after 44 years, but it doesn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ariotofmyown Posted March 31, 2019 Share Posted March 31, 2019 8 hours ago, angieram said: Snap! I wasn't able to have children (I wanted eleven, all boys!) so it's my least favourite day of the year. You'd think it would feel different after 44 years, but it doesn't. I have stupidly never considered someone who is in your position on Mother's Day, probably as my wife and I still both have our mothers and we have kids too. My great-nan is still going strong as well. Must be a really tough day for you and other people in the same situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inverurie Ram Posted March 31, 2019 Share Posted March 31, 2019 Listen to Mothers and realise how lucky we all are to be loved and to be alive. Don't worry about the things Never Said and Every Mothers Son will always love their Mothers. Enjoy. Love, Life & Unity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkFruitsRam7 Posted April 1, 2019 Share Posted April 1, 2019 16 hours ago, angieram said: Snap! I wasn't able to have children (I wanted eleven, all boys!) so it's my least favourite day of the year. You'd think it would feel different after 44 years, but it doesn't. Sorry to hear that, Angie. You might like this, which popped up on my timeline a couple of times yesterday (I think Jody Morris shared it on Instagram): Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ColonelBlimp Posted April 1, 2019 Share Posted April 1, 2019 Nothing, she's dead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Van der MoodHoover Posted April 1, 2019 Share Posted April 1, 2019 I don't do anything on Mother's Day. I do however, take Ma Hants out for lunch on Mothering Sunday ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MuespachRam Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 On 31/03/2019 at 18:55, Inverurie Ram said: Listen to Mothers and realise how lucky we all are to be loved and to be alive. Don't worry about the things Never Said and Every Mothers Son will always love their Mothers. Enjoy. Love, Life & Unity. Can always rely onthe angelic tones of the greatest love song writer in history to make It all ok again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BaaLocks Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 On 01/04/2019 at 00:55, Inverurie Ram said: Listen to Mothers and realise how lucky we all are to be loved and to be alive. Don't worry about the things Never Said and Every Mothers Son will always love their Mothers. Enjoy. Love, Life & Unity. You took your Mum to see The Wedding Present - now that is a great way to spend the day.... I know I'm going to sound like a right grouch now but the whole Clinton Card-day phenomena is so hard to keep up with. Valentines, Birthdays, International Women's Day, Anniversaries, Mothering Sunday, Christmas - it just seems like every other week the pressure is on to buy a card and show your affection in that way that the card companies and flower sellers deem appropriate. I'm a much bigger fan of 'I made lunch for us today coz I love you' on July 18th or any other random day. Of course, I am wholly aware this logic works on any other day of the year except Mothering Sunday.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoetheRam Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 Sent her a text. Will take some discounted chocolates and maybe a bottle of wine next time I pop round. Which might be sometime in the next month. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
May Contain Nuts Posted April 3, 2019 Share Posted April 3, 2019 Nothing, never have, nor Father's Day, I dont consider them valid days of celebration, there's no real tradition behind them, just a made up day to sell cards. What's wrong with just honouring you parents on their birthdays? Why do you need another, commercially lead day for it? It's balls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boycie Posted April 3, 2019 Share Posted April 3, 2019 5 hours ago, Coconut said: Nothing, never have, nor Father's Day, I dont consider them valid days of celebration, there's no real tradition behind them, just a made up day to sell cards. What's wrong with just honouring you parents on their birthdays? Why do you need another, commercially lead day for it? It's balls. Wait until there’s little coconuts falling from the tree. You’ll be expecting something for all the outlay throughout the year! ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inglorius Posted April 3, 2019 Share Posted April 3, 2019 It lost its meaning for me years ago, the only realisation I have of the day is when I stumble into my local Asda and see the foyer rammed out with flowers and bouquets then I make the connection - which is then quickly assigned to the internal memory bin. If you have to have a special day to cherish your mother then there is something horribly wrong somewhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David Posted April 3, 2019 Share Posted April 3, 2019 3 hours ago, Boycie said: Wait until there’s little coconuts falling from the tree. You’ll be expecting something for all the outlay throughout the year! ? Should have worn protection. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boycie Posted April 4, 2019 Share Posted April 4, 2019 9 hours ago, David said: Should have worn protection. Hard hat? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McRamFan Posted April 4, 2019 Share Posted April 4, 2019 20 hours ago, Coconut said: Nothing, never have, nor Father's Day, I dont consider them valid days of celebration, there's no real tradition behind them, just a made up day to sell cards. What's wrong with just honouring you parents on their birthdays? Why do you need another, commercially lead day for it? It's balls. Mothering Sunday dates back to the Ancient Greeks and Romans. It has been comercialised, as has xmas, birthdays, halloween, easter etc. You can thank the good US of A, in the main part. https://www.history.com/topics/holidays/mothers-day Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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