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3 hours ago, David said:

Thanks Revil, didn’t post it as it’s been a bit of a whirlwind these past few weeks. 
These rings cost a bloody fortune, think I’ve got the right one to buy one for though. 
She’s got a cracking pair of ears.
 

 

Bet she was instrumental in your recovery too. All credit to the women who stick by men who are down and struggling, they deserve to now see you at your best, with the great ring around her finger

Just now, David said:

It is what it is, not worrying about it as that won’t change a thing. See what they say and deal with it as it comes.

Agree, no point worrying about what you cant change. I wont be having kids (too?), and when I think about it, theres so much more to life. I hope you end up having kids though !

Just now, David said:

As this is the honest and open thread, we’ve been trying....2 years now. Tests in March to see why nothing has happened, hoping it’s down to my health and nothing serious. 

Hope it happens, I know a few people who really want kids but cant, would hate you to have to deal with that on top of everything else you had to

2 of my friends are getting married soon too, great times for me. Love it all!

Delighted for you

Any kids on the way ?:p

1 hour ago, Paul71 said:

Its not difficult. Only go if you can safely clear the boxed area.

We shouldnt need them, people should be considerate and not enter an area that could block others from progressing. Too many people do and it causes a huge amount of congestion.

They piss me off tbh, I just pretend there not there. just like red line thingies near roundabouts

3 hours ago, AndyinLiverpool said:

Box junctions.

ducking hell, people, don't enter the thing unless the exit is clear. Just don't.

I am sick of Bamfords blocking the traffic because they are too selfish / stupid to use a box junction properly.

Dont even know how to use them tbh, I just imagine they arent there. If the traffic light is green, I go, if it is red, I stay

Fury will beat all these bums tbh

14 hours ago, SaintRam said:

I don't check in here very often any more but when you said you were lashing out in the other thread I thought I'd take a look to see if you'd said anything.

All I want to say is this:

All struggles are genuine. It doesn't matter if they're big or they're small, the effects are the same.

Pauls advice is good. Take your time with your decisions. And if you need to, talk to the people around you. When people are aware, they tend to be good at finding ways to help you deal with stress.

Dont fall into the trap of trying to take on everything on your own, and not burden others, because you think your issues are too small potatoes.

I did that, exactly that, and well... things only got worse. Much worse.

I agree with what you are saying, definately genuine, I have a few struggles myself but I try and keep a good perspective, understand that people are worse off, and get on with it

We are all different though :)

Bullying can leave some permanent scars for some people tbh. Dont understand folks who think success in later life such as a nice girl, money or a fancy car fixes all that

Great news

All the best today 

There's one thing not being able to have kids (my case ECT), but to have your baby taken away from you . ..dont want to even begin to imagine 

Hope it's just a scare 

17 hours ago, Ramslad1992 said:

Sorry for lack of replies to other people who have quoted me, a few days  ago my fiancée rang me at work to say she was bleeding, we have an emergency scan booked in for Friday (how the duck it can be an emergency and wait 5 days from booking is beyond me) but it’s not looking great, either way I’m sure I’ll get to be a ‘proper’ dad one day. I love my stepdaughter to the end of the earth but to be able to say ‘I made him/her’ is all I’ve ever wanted. I wasn’t sure whether to post this in here or the depression thread but the not knowing until Friday is properly killing me. Either way I just want to know for closure if nothing else. 

So sorry to hear that mate .

On 12/11/2019 at 21:43, Dappled Ram said:

Even when a baby is screaming it's head off remember this too will pass. Treasure and enjoy it all.  It is over too soon. 

What the duck is there to enjoy about that lol 

14 minutes ago, RoyMac5 said:

"...the now 101-year-old has been to almost every home match since the end of the Second World War.

Speaking when celebrating his 100th birthday in 2017, he said: “There is no secret to old age just luck and kindness.

"If you are kind and nice to people, most people will be nice back to you and that’s how I live my life.”

Utterly refreshing

Nowadays you have this "nice guys finish last" ******** that gets branded around, which just turns the world into a bunch of people who want to be manipulative twits

18 minutes ago, Mucker1884 said:

I strongly suspect that explains the "previous" bit!  Did they actually give a reason, or did they just crawl away, never to be seen again?

crawl away hahahaha made me laugh

2 hours ago, Smyth_18 said:

Never heard of this procedure before, to quote another thread......

Go on...

Haha me neither! Luckily Ill never find out lol . Being a parent is the most important responsibility you will have in your life . So embrace it. 

Awww isnt she cute!?

Im going to adopt  a cute baby when I get to 30 haha

4 minutes ago, Alpha said:

Will be lost on some people though who will see it as a story of a guy who goes from nothing to something rather than descends into anarchy. 

You know they'll be a sequel too. It's been too successful to leave alone 

Agreed and hope so!

10 minutes ago, Alpha said:

Definitely. 

I bet a film like this is porn to the sort of kids that do the high school shootings. He's even more of an icon to the edges of society than Heath Ledger. The film didn't really carry a good message which is ok if you take it for what it is. A film. 

 

But at the same time, our society does have a responsibility to raise kids better, and not to beat down men (especially as they get violent when they have no purpose) who are struggling. A man who has nothing to lose is the most dangerous kind of man

I think the film carried a great message to be honest. 

9 minutes ago, Alpha said:

Yeah I liked that. It was great to see BatMan through Joker's eyes instead of the other way around. 

I can see how the film is dodgy for some people though. You get on board with how unfair and lonely he sees the world. There's a justice in what he does. And along with Heath Ledger I think he's become relatable to modern society. 

BatMan is the rich do gooder and he probably needs a shake up now. After the last two Jokers it's hard to want him to win. 

That scene at the Wayne Manor gates did him no favours, did it? Privileged little poo!

I say last two Jokers but I forgot Jared Leto. Should have been a good actor for the role but they somehow made a mess of that film. 

Yeah, thats the issue. No matter how poo life gets, or how bad you feel, self pity is the worst thing for your overall happiness. Having said that when the joker shot the host I wasnt like "What a terrible person", I was more like "Take that you popular celebrity shithead". Dangerous right? But its only a film. But some people have it so hard in life, they think like that all the time. Now that really dangerous. 

The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth

37 minutes ago, Alpha said:

The Joker 10/10

Bit later than I hoped for but watched it tonight. Loved every second. Exactly what it should have been.

Think the Joker has been up staging BatMan since Jack Nicholson. He's always had an interesting story to tell and I think this was told in such a way that covers all bases. Even lives up to the Heath Ledger Joker and if anything gives that more depth. 

You have to be intrigued by The Joker though. If he's not a character you wanted to get to know better then the film will be wasted on you. Finally a film where we don't have to want BatMan to win. 

Is it me or did the batman come across as the worse guy than the joker?

1 hour ago, Alpha said:

I don't buy this kind of talk though. 

Maybe because when I was 24 or 25 I could walk on my own two feet and I didn't need or want excuses for my mistakes. Maybe that the reason I accept mistakes from people but not excuses. 

If poor little Tom and precious little Mason look to Keogh as some sort of guidance then they need to grow the duck up

I'm the same age as Keogh. I'm responsible for me and my daughters. I make mistakes and so do they. I accept consequences and I learn from them. Would i feck take a work colleague out and accept responsibility for him because he's 25. You can stick a piece of elastic on my arm every Saturday and still get the same answer

In this world everyone knows a dhead but nobody admits to being one. 

I'm capable of fecking up. So are you. Maybe people need to learn to say that more instead of looking to point the finger. 

Mason Bennett is a Dad isn't he? Do he need Keogh to come around and wipe his arse while he wipes his own child

Im actually picturing that hahahaha

5 hours ago, Eddie Lewis said:

We are due start of Feb, our first...im BRICKING IT MASSIVELY 

Gather the support of your and her family , and you should be fine

Dont be afraid to call for help when it gets overwhelming

But babies do make us see the wonders of the world

Contraception :)

42 minutes ago, Spanish said:

seriously?

what was your view of our 2 DDs?

What's a dd lol

1 hour ago, Paul71 said:

20 is only for areas that have a higher risk of injury for pedestrians. If you are near a school and a child runs out and you hit them at 20 they stand a significantly greater chance of surviving or avoiding serious injury than if you hit them at 30

I never stick to 20 limits tbh