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Inglorius

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    Inglorius got a reaction from MickD in New joke thread (trigger alert, may offend if you want it to)   
    How do you keep a bunch of morons in suspense? I'll tell you tomorrow 
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    Inglorius reacted to AndyinLiverpool in Watchable telly   
    Who'd heard of Oxford before inspector Morse?
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    Inglorius got a reaction from I know nothing in Watchable telly   
    Youth Hostelling with Chris Eubank
    Inner city Sumo
    Monkey Tennis 
    Swallow
     
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    Inglorius got a reaction from ketteringram in Watchable telly   
    Youth Hostelling with Chris Eubank
    Inner city Sumo
    Monkey Tennis 
    Swallow
     
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    Inglorius reacted to AndyinLiverpool in Emiliano Sala   
    This is a club that hired Neil Warnock as their manager. I'm not sure they know what good taste is.
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    Inglorius got a reaction from TigerTedd in Emiliano Sala   
    Well what would have happened in a parallel universe if Sala had played for Cardiff turned out a flop then they had to absorb his huge wages for 3 years loan him out and then he left on a free at the end of his contract? Who would have paid for that?
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    Inglorius got a reaction from North East Ram in Emiliano Sala   
    Surely Cardiff can see how distasteful this whole episode is and how it reflects on their club.
    Can I add to the above that Cardiff pay the 15 million transfer fee to Nantes,  the agent's fees get paid to the relatives of the deceased and also Cardiff get relegated this year to give them opportunity to reflect on what actually matters in this whole episode 
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    Inglorius got a reaction from DarkFruitsRam7 in New joke thread (trigger alert, may offend if you want it to)   
    You could say the same thing about typical juvenile humourless Lads Bible fare on Facebook.
    Given the lack of apprenticeship schemes what is the viable alternative.
    I went to Uni when Derbyshire County Council paid for my beer money without coming out 50k in hock so I'm OK I suppose. 
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    Inglorius got a reaction from McRamFan in Forum Issues   
    Not sure if this is the right place but in my opinion some kind of forum etiquette needs to be installed on here. Not talking about bans for using racist,  homophobic articles or deleting posts that contravene forum guidelines on politics or religion but moderating members behaviours.
    As an example when I run meetings at work I set up meeting etiquette rules such as arrive to the meeting on time, turn off mobiles, come prepared, do not talk over other people when they are talking etc as a professional courtesy to the other attendees.
    Same thing to translate to this forum, treat other members with respect, do not deliberately points score or deliberately patronise or belittle other posters views etc. 
    Any thoughts? I know it's an open forum but my word there are some folks on here who don't know how to conduct themselves or behave in an appropriate manner.
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    Inglorius got a reaction from bigbadbob in Forum Issues   
    Not sure if this is the right place but in my opinion some kind of forum etiquette needs to be installed on here. Not talking about bans for using racist,  homophobic articles or deleting posts that contravene forum guidelines on politics or religion but moderating members behaviours.
    As an example when I run meetings at work I set up meeting etiquette rules such as arrive to the meeting on time, turn off mobiles, come prepared, do not talk over other people when they are talking etc as a professional courtesy to the other attendees.
    Same thing to translate to this forum, treat other members with respect, do not deliberately points score or deliberately patronise or belittle other posters views etc. 
    Any thoughts? I know it's an open forum but my word there are some folks on here who don't know how to conduct themselves or behave in an appropriate manner.
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    Inglorius got a reaction from McRainy in Should I Leave the Forum?   
    Don't worry. Society has already condemned you to the scrapheap.
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    Inglorius got a reaction from DarkFruitsRam7 in Should I Leave the Forum?   
    Don't worry. Society has already condemned you to the scrapheap.
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    Inglorius reacted to David in Forum Issues   
    Only links from Twitter, Facebook and Instagram will embed the content into a page, on each post you will see either a share link or drop down menu that has one you can use.
    Images, the best way is to either right click or press and hold then open image in new tab, copy the link in the address bar and paste into the editor, wait a few seconds and it will appear. The link must end with either .jpeg .jpg .png or .gif
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    Inglorius reacted to Boycie in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    I can sympathise with your condition as I have experience with this diagnosis. If you need help or someone to talk too also drop me a PM. We and I can help you.  Unfortunately I can't help with the current results ?
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    Inglorius got a reaction from EssendonRam in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    I've recently been diagnosed with having Aspergers Syndrome which is a form of autism, I am still coming to terms with accepting this and found it even more difficult to cope with the diagnosis given that the clinical psychologist who diagnosed me said there is basically no cure as such and that it was just about managing the condition. He gave me a list of contact groups whom became apparent that they were all geared around autism in children not for a middle aged adult like myself and then referred me back to my GP whose knowledge of the subject was cursory. 
    I asked to be referred to a CBT whom discharged me after a few sessions as she said there was nothing she could help me with, it seems that there are no contact or help groups for adults with autism I have a moderate condition on the autism spectrum which means I can function at a level on a day to day basis unlike some sufferers but still has a huge impact on my existence for example avoiding human contact, having little or no appetite to do anything, like depression which I have also suffered from, it can be very debilitating.
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    Inglorius reacted to ketteringram in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    I'll PM you, sometime in the next few days! Bed time, for 4AM start. 
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    Inglorius got a reaction from Tony Le Mesmer in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    Thanks for your thoughts, at least now I have some understanding I can maybe find a little closure. I have a lot of your similar traits I find it difficult to maintain social or trivial chit chat and have just lost many friends or contacts through my life just down to lack of motivation or effort on my part. Thanks again for your wishes.
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    Inglorius reacted to Tony Le Mesmer in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    Exactly my position Inglorious. I am high functioning and diagnosed recently although I've managed to live a reasonably 'normal' life up to now having a partner and kid who aren't on the spectrum. I find I have a tendency to think that whatever I think or say then i'm right and everyone else is wrong but i'm learning to accept that others have other opinions that are equally as valid. I also have a strong desire to see people who commit the most innocuous of 'crimes' such as parking in a disabled bay when they aren't disabled told about it and punished. It's just something that drives me. If it's wrong then it's wrong and often with the unfathomable behaviour of many other people, day to day life is tricky as i'm always getting annoyed at people who don't do the right thing and I've been in scuffles and arguments about this with strangers many times.
    At times you do feel like you don't belong on earth and you are a complete different species and something that makes perfect sense to you doesn't seem so clear cut to others not on the spectrum and it is frustrating. I don't avoid human contact but I do prefer either people who pretty much think and act like me or people who basically just don't annoy me. I'm pretty judgemental which means I haven't really made as many close friends as I could have over my 20 years of working. If someone is into enough stuff that I find trivial then I cannot get past pleasantries. It's tough but learning all the time.
    Chin up mate. Just gotta keep plodding along with it, managing and trying to push yourself as much as you can.
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    Inglorius got a reaction from Tony Le Mesmer in Depression, anxiety, stress and other related issues   
    I've recently been diagnosed with having Aspergers Syndrome which is a form of autism, I am still coming to terms with accepting this and found it even more difficult to cope with the diagnosis given that the clinical psychologist who diagnosed me said there is basically no cure as such and that it was just about managing the condition. He gave me a list of contact groups whom became apparent that they were all geared around autism in children not for a middle aged adult like myself and then referred me back to my GP whose knowledge of the subject was cursory. 
    I asked to be referred to a CBT whom discharged me after a few sessions as she said there was nothing she could help me with, it seems that there are no contact or help groups for adults with autism I have a moderate condition on the autism spectrum which means I can function at a level on a day to day basis unlike some sufferers but still has a huge impact on my existence for example avoiding human contact, having little or no appetite to do anything, like depression which I have also suffered from, it can be very debilitating.
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